逸轩 发表于 2012-9-1 18:23

快乐人生 从接受缺憾开始

<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">对许多人来说,这个世界上最陌生的人就是<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>自己</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  似乎从来没有机会安静下来好好了解一下自己。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  你可能对地球那边美国大选的进展情况了如指掌,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  却不知道自己身心的真实需求和感受。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  习惯性的心不在焉,使我们错过<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>了解自己</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>的大好机会。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  《阿含经》中讲述了四念处的修行法门,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  就是从<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>身、受、心、法</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>着手,如实而又绵密地觉察自己的身心。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  在这种了了分明的觉察中,很多烦恼消失无踪了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  拿最具伤害性的负面情感<FONT face="Times New Roman">——</FONT><FONT face=宋体>愤怒来说。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  愤怒也有从酝酿到爆发的一个过程,就像着火,开始只是几颗小火星,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  后来发展成火苗,风一吹,才越烧越猛,成了一场大火。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  许多人要等到火焰冲天才意识到着火了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  可是,如果留心观察的话,火星或火苗刚起就上前把它扑灭,大火就烧不起来了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  你甚至可以不急于去扑火,袖手旁观也无妨,看看火是怎么烧起来的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  也许你还不知道,通常在火上煽风浇油的,就是喜欢恶作剧的那个你。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  现在你跑出来做观众了,没人帮忙,火烧得不起劲,一会儿自己就灭了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  其它情绪也是这样,不要被它们推着到处乱跑,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  转过身来正视它们,看它们从何而来,往哪里去!</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  不了解自己的另一个表现是<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>不知如何正确地对待自己</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  或是溺爱放纵,或是自责苛求,总之就是不能以一种平和的方式与自己相处。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  很多人的问题都在于<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>永远对自己不满意</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  不满意自己目前的外表、才智、地位、财富、受用,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  好了还想更好,一生的精力都用在追求更好上。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  佛经中把我们生活的这个世界称为<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>娑婆世界</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>,意思是</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>能忍受缺憾的世界</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  痴心不改硬要在这个缺憾的世界里追求完美,会有结果吗?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  永无止境地追逐,目的到底是什么呢?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  为了追求生活的富足安逸而苦恼或者忙得忘记去生活的,大有人在。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  辛苦操劳一辈子,到头来还是不快乐,而一生却已经过去了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  快乐的人生是从接受缺憾开始的,接受一个不那么完美的自己,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  学会说:我不再需要什么,我很满意。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"></P>
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<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0>  不要以为我们修行的目的是为了掌握更多的才艺技能,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  从而成为一个更美丽、更圆熟、更富有、更令众人羡慕的人。不是这样的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  很多时候,我们恰恰需要做减法。心思单纯,生活简单就很好。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  仔细观察下,我们深深执着的人、事物、状态等,没有一样对我们来说是不可或缺的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  把快乐寄托在向外驰求上,就像喝盐水解渴一样,得到的越多越不满足。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  从前华智仁波切隐姓埋名,在化缘的途中为一名亡者做超度。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  当亡者往生的瑞相出现后,家属高兴地供养给衣衫褴褛的华智仁波切三匹马以示感谢。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  仁波切说:<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>我不需要任何供养。有了三匹马就会有三匹马的烦恼。</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  人们之所以认为自己<FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT><FONT face=宋体>必须要这样、要那样</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT><FONT face=宋体>才会快乐,完全是惯性思维在作怪。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  当一些突发事件,如疾病、灾难,打断我们惯常的思维方式,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; LINE-HEIGHT: 27pt; MARGIN-TOP: 15.6pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 7.8pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221)" class=p0><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)">  我们就会发现其实自己并不像原先以为的那样,需要很多条件才能感到快乐。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; BACKGROUND: rgb(221,221,221); COLOR: rgb(0,51,102); FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-shading: rgb(221,221,221)"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

流年似水 发表于 2012-9-5 12:54

辛苦操劳一辈子,到头来还是不快乐,而一生却已经过去了。


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