孔子做人51精要
本帖最后由 逸轩 于 2011-6-7 22:14 编辑 <br /><br /><p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=center><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><font size=+0><em><strong>失败并不可耻 无志才是可悲 成功并不可喜 平安才是可贺</strong></em></font></font></p><p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>一切快乐，没有比祥和更为快乐；一切享受，没有比宁静更为享受。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>一个人心量有多大，事业就有多大；一个人心能容多少，成就就有多少。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">一个人的成就，在于日积月累；</strong>一个人的成功，在于坚毅不拔。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">人可以穷，心不能穷，心里的能源，取之不尽；身可以残，心不能残，心里的健康，用之不竭。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>人在顺境时往往会得意忘形，所以知本份是做人的根本；人在逆境中常常会灰心丧志，因此常精进是处世的基础。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">心中满足到处好，人情冷暖任随他，乐观进取直逍遥，威武权势不必怕，行住坐卧要威仪，衣食住行莫浮华，做人处事八正道，慈悲喜舍称无量。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">人有一分学养，便有一分气质；人多一分器量，便多一分人缘。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">不如人处勿自歎，须知天外有天；胜于人处勿自傲，当念人外有人。</strong></font><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>­</font><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">不忧不惧、精进奋发，是袪病第一良方；不排不拒、放下执著，是除恼第一秘诀。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">勿以己之长，而显人之短；勿因己之拙，而忘人之能。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">以别人的经验，作自己的参考；以别人的成功，作自己的榜样。</strong></font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">勿毁众人之名，以成一己之善；勿废天下之理，以护一己之愆。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">心里要常感念别人的恩德，口里要常赞美别人的长处。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">以赞歎代替嫉妒，则事事圆满欢喜；以随缘代替执著，则处处方便自在。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">失败并不可耻，无志才是可悲！成功并不可喜，平安才是可贺！</strong></font></p>
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<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">任难任之事，要有力而无气；处难处之人，要有知而无言；行难行之道，要有信而无惧；忍难忍之苦，要有容而无怨。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">失意事，治之以忍；快心事，处之以淡；荣宠事，置之以让；怨恨事，安之以退。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">立志的人，才有目标；实践的人，才会成功。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">多一番考验，长一番见识；多一分享受，减一分志气。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">多欲者，心常不满，不满，招灾也；知足者，欢喜常随，欢喜，纳祥也。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">在顺境中要警惕自我，在逆境中要奋勉向上。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">在心量方面，要能容纳不喜欢的人；在做人方面，须具备谦虚卑下的心；在事业方面，要有舍我其谁的愿力。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">安莫安于知足，危莫危于多言；利莫利于喜舍，乐莫乐于禅悦。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">有志不在年高，有理不在声大；有心不在言表，有才不在现用。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">最好的礼物是忠言，最好的修养是宽恕。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">伟大是由血汗堆积，牺牲越多，越是伟大；成功多因勤劳而获，用力越多，越会成功。</strong><strong fromubb="1"> </strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">有苦有乐的人生是充实的，有成有败的人生是合理的，有得有失的人生是公平的，有生有死的人生是自然的。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">忙，像一把锋利的慧剑，能断妄想的葛藤；忙，是点石成金的手指，能化腐朽为神奇；忙，是营养调身的补品，使人生充满生机。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">老，非关年龄，最怕的是心力的衰退；小，非关身材，最怕的是志节的不坚。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">行为可以看出做事能力；言谈可以察知品德修养。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">谦卑在人前，所向尽通；傲慢在人前，寸步难行。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">污泥可以长出莲花，寒门可以培养孝子；洪炉可以锻炼钢铁，困境可以成就伟人；苦涩可以蕴酿甘甜，烦恼可以转为菩提。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">冷静是智能的门户，勤劳是成功的种籽，感恩是幸福的泉源，忏悔是改过的妙方。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">不要只看自己，要看大众；不要只看现在，要看未来；不要只做一件事，要做很多件事；不要只听一句话，要听很多句话。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">即知即行是英才，不知而行是庸才，知而不行是蠢才，不知不行不成才。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">希望可以寄托于明日，行动必定实践于今日。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">要如松柏，耐得考验；要如根识，各司其用；要如盲跛，和人互助；要如圣贤，不轻后学。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">批评不必怕，阿谀才可畏；失败不必怕，无知才可惧。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">改心换性是改变命运的药剂，回头转身是开创命运的良方。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">每一个人都是自我生命的艺术家，可以彩绘自己的人生世界；每一个人都是自我生命的工程师，可以塑造自我的美好形象。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">居心宽大，条条大道；待人刻薄，处处荆棘。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">邪知邪见，似是而非，使人沉沦；正知正见，明心见性，使人自在。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">直心是道场，坦诚是净土，</strong><strong fromubb="1">欢喜是财富，惭愧是宝冠。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">语言，要像阳光，能制造光明的见解；语言，要像花朵，能制造芬芳的思想；语言，要像净水，能制造洁净的观念。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">享受健康不如享受平安，享受财富不如享受书香；享受名利不如享受无求，享受拥有不如享受施舍。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">肯学肯做就是能干的人；不学不做就是愚昧的人。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">忠厚不易伪装，忠厚最好的考验是时间，奸佞也非本具；奸佞最好的考验是利害。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">非份之财是毒蛇，有道净财是资粮。</strong></font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">勇者创造命运，弱者依赖命运，仁者静观命运，智者改变命运。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">待人厚道是美德，令众人敬爱；待人刻薄是缺德，令众人厌恶。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">为人处事，要能如水；遇山水转，遇岸水转，遇石水转；无论遇到谁，我转。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">为恶而磊落无惧，则谓大恶；为善而怯懦不前，则谓小善。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">珍惜福报才会更有福报；珍惜因缘才会更具因缘。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">看人家的错失，是结怨之源；看自己的不是，是众善之本。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">看得破的人，什么都是我的；看不破的人，什么皆非我的。</strong></font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">苦难折磨的人生，似磨刀之石；多一份苦难，便多一份坚忍；多一份折磨，便多一份毅力。</strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">浪费时间可惜；生而不学可惜；学而无成更可惜。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>若时时原谅自己，必常常迷失自己；若处处厚待自己，必屡屡失却自己。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>要作正直的君子，敢言、敢为；不做消极的好人，胡涂、昏庸。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>要做人间的鼓舞者，不做他人的怜悯者。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">要想成功，必须发奋；要能发奋，必须知耻。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">往好处看，往大处想，往细处察，往深处解。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312><strong fromubb="1">消磨时间即是糟蹋自己，浪费精力即是摧残自己。</strong><strong fromubb="1"></strong>­</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>真诚中的识见，是大识见；患难中的担当，是大担当。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>能知耻辱，必能成大器；能知己短，必可成完人</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>良药苦口利于病，澹泊明志利于心，忠言逆耳利于行，清净无求利于心。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>每一时间都是黎明，每一挑战都是机会，每一逆境都是考验，每一善行都是创造。</font></p>
<p style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" align=left><font size=5 face=楷体_GB2312>惟有爱惜力量，养深积厚，才能蓄势待发，实现理想；惟有爱惜众缘，尊重包容，才能群策群力，共成美事。</font></p>
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<p align=left><font face=仿宋_GB2312><font size=4><font color=#00cc00> </font><font color=#00b0f0><span style="COLOR: #993366"><strong style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">1</strong></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、人有三知就可以立世，你可知否？<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">人这一辈子需要知道的东西太多了，常常让人感到累得慌。那么这些繁杂的知识中有没有最为主要和核心的东西呢？也就是说，即使不太了解其他的知识，只要了解它们就足以立身处世？有！说来倒是简单<span lang=EN-US>,</span>只有三个字：礼、命、言。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、享不了洪福就享清福。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一个人如果实现了俗世理想，成为达官显贵，那么自然可以享洪福；如果没有实现俗世理想，那么也要安心享受清福。没有人能同时既享洪福又享清福的，智慧的人从这两种福中都能享受到超然的乐趣。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、善于提问是金钩，能钩出令你惊喜的答案。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">世事复杂，对任何事都得多留几个心眼。凡事多问必多益，因为任何疑难问题都招架不住三个以上问号的敲打，只要打破砂锅问到底，问题的症结必定会水落石出。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、可以让人帮你买鞋，不可让人代你走路。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">每个人都需要别人的帮助，但是接受别人的帮助也必须发挥自己的主观能动性。别人的脚步注定是别人的去处，自己的双脚走出的是自己的路。人生于天地之间，自立自强才是人生最重要的课题。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、良药苦口，喂药时别被对方喷到你脸上。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">朋友的真正价值就在于关键时能提个醒儿，走错了路时能帮着扳扳道岔子。可要注意的是，当一再规劝仍然不被朋友接受，甚至还误会我们的用意时，我们明智的做法是“差不多就行了”。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、变通，是人生的万向轮。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">“兵地常势，水无常形”，我们在处理各种事物时都要能够做到随机应变，因势利导，不墨守成规，不拘泥于一格，甚至逢大势不践小诺，处大事不拘小礼，从而达到变则通，通则灵，灵则达，达则成的理想效果。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 7</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、慷时间之慨的人，命运会对他很吝啬。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">慷时间之概的人，命运之神会对他很吝啬。只有惜时如金的人，只有想尽一切办法挤干时间这头奶牛最后一滴乳汁的人，才会成为人生的阔佬。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 8</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、不要做自己心灵的绑票者。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">我们的一切烦恼都源于欲望，因为欲望是无限的，而能得到满足的欲望是有限的，所以我们一生烦恼不断。减少烦恼的秘诀是限制自己如蛇的欲望，解救被功利之魔绑架的心灵。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 9</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、自己发达时，莫忘帮助他人发展。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">先行登上崖顶的人，不要只顾自己极目四望看万壑风光，而应该向崖底扔下一根绳子。如果你这样做了，那些在下面苦苦攀爬的后进者向你仰望时，会像看一尊山神。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 10</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、太极般的处事技巧：虚与周旋。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">虚与周旋是一种表面顺随，实际上是敷衍应付的态度。对于有些人胡搅蛮缠，我们既跟他讲不清道理，也犯不着与他针锋相对，于是便采取这种虚与周旋的态度。虚与周旋是一种有用而又有效的处事技巧。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 11</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、宽容是互赠的礼品，苛求是对刺的尖刀。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">宽容是互赠的礼品<span lang=EN-US>----</span>你能宽容别人，别人也不会难为你；苛求是对刺的尖刀<span lang=EN-US>-----</span>你苛求别人，别人也不会饶了你。在宽大平和之中，认识这世界的可爱和可赞之处，才不辜负我们这难得的一生。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 12</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、忍不下一个耳光，有可能被割下耳朵。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">你看这个“忍”字造得多残酷<span lang=EN-US>----</span>心上插着一把滴血的刀，从字面上就能看出，人们在忍耐时内心是非常难受的！虽然人们有许多难忍之忍，但还不得不忍。有的忍不但不是懦弱，反而是一种大智大勇。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 13</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、人无远虑，必有近忧。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">现在所面临的问题和忧愁，是起因于以前没有深思熟虑的作为；同样的，今天的作为如果未经长远的深思熟虑，将来必会尝到苦果。有些人之所以被称为高人，就是因为他们善于高瞻远瞩，往往比常人多看三两步，多做三两手准备。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 14</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、要做你所在行业的通才。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">我们生在一个广义的专业化时代，事物变迁日新月异，生活愈来愈复杂和多样化。愈来愈多的领域需要通才，你一定要在自己的领域成为绝对的内行通才，这样才能尽快获得事业的成功。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 15</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、欲成大事恰恰要看淡得失。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">走向大成功的路上必有大摔打，看淡得失便会增强承受能力。我们空手而来本不拥有任何东西，中间短暂的拥有则是上天的恩赐，如果失去也不过是减少了所得。如有这种心态，肯定比患失更易获得成功，心理也会很健康。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 16</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、天生我才必有用。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一个人的出身并不重要，重要的是你自身要有才能。并且你还要深信，自己的才能总会派上用场。上苍让你诞生于世，绝不是毫无理由的，完全是因为这个世间需要你们这一个角色。你所要做的，就是找到最适合你的那个位置，并发挥作用。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 17</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、中庸之道的生活智慧。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">在与人类生活问题有关的古今哲学中，还不曾发现过一个比中庸学说更深奥的真理。这种学说，就是指介于两个极端之间的那种有条不紊的生活。这种中庸精神，在动作与静止之间找到了一种完全的均衡。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 18</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、旷达之人会随遇而安。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">学会旷达，我们不再因生活中所谓的烦恼而忧心忡忡；就会站在人生另一个高度上去看待和审视周围的人和事；就会走在时代的前列，我们就会以一个过来者的身份出现在他人面前。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 19</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、宁做傻中奸，不做奸中傻。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">傻中奸者是一个战略家，最终能赢得一场战争；而奸中傻者只有一个战术家，充其量只能赢得某场战斗而已。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 20</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、许诺如负债，到时必须还。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">言而无信的骗子迟早是要倒霉的，即使人家不报复和惩罚你，你的信誉和人缘也必然会损失殆尽，你的各种机会也就没了。行骗最终是要付出惨重代价和高昂成本，因而做的是一桩得不偿失的赔本生意。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 21</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、善事做了再说，以后自有成果。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">尽管有人在做善事时，只是按照良心、道义和仁爱在行动，并没有想要也没有想到会有回报，但一个人把善事做出之后，是不可能在世间不产生任何反响的<span lang=EN-US>----</span>知恩图报之心，人皆有之。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 22</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、有病不怕治，有错不怕改。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">错误是难免的，庸人忙于掩饰错误，而有心人不但敢于承认和改正自己的错误，还能从中提炼出智慧，化作走向成功之途的路费。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 23</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、用火烧一下就知道你是不是蜡做的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">不到关键时刻，就考验不出一个人的真相。危机就如试金石一样，把每个人的品质与能力暴露得清清楚楚，人群之中的面目再混同<span lang=EN-US>----</span>黄金终究会放出与黄铜不同的光芒。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 24</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、不要时时卖弄自己。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">人可偶尔露峥嵘，关键时候显身手，时机成熟时一鸣惊人。如果时时都想卖弄自己，则十个有十个要失败；有城府者藏才隐德，谦虚谨慎，以弱制胜，将这些作为任重而道远的护身符，比别人成功的机会更多。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 25</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、只有练好内功<span lang=EN-US>,</span>才能建立外功。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">如果你没什么本事，那么别人不了解你是件好事，因为你的无能得以掩藏；如果你很有本事，那么你也别怕自己暂时的默默无闻，因为你的本事是掩藏不住的，就像灯丝儿藏不住电一样，它总会放出光芒的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 26</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、不要不懂装懂，自欺欺人。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">客观地正视不足，果敢地采取举措，就会最终填平欠缺。而对不足遮遮掩掩，试图文过饰非，则必将永远无法取得进步，再博学的人也会有不知道的东西，所以智者常以虚心好学的姿态出现于人们面前。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 27</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、犹豫就是成败之间摇摆不定。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">犹豫越久，就越容易销磨信心和意志，丧失成功的时机。从最糟的结果来说，如果一个较差的决定是比较早做出的，出了问题你还有补救的时间；而一个决策的作出如果既差又迟，那么你连补救的余地都没有了。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 28</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、做自己喜欢的事情最容易成功。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">只有去做真心喜欢的一件事情，我们才会成功。原因很简单，真正的喜欢投入就多，能量一充足，就可以发电，电能一充足，就能把事情玩得很转。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 29</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、心量有多大，事业就有多大。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一个人心量有多大，事业就有多大；一个人心能容多少，成就就有多少。对于心胸开阔的人来说，山河大地，有情人生，一切都是可供享用的资源。同时，他更能装天下难装之事，容天下难容之人，成就毕生伟业。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 30</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、固执者就是握着红烙铁不撒手的人。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">固执会把一个聪明人变成傻瓜，过度地坚持意味着把自己逼上绝路。为人不要太固执，必要时就要放下自己的一切成见，这样才会别有洞天。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 31</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、要活出富有创意的人生。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">创新并不只是某些行业的专利，也不是超常智慧的人才具有创新的能力。创新只是在寻找一种新的改进方法，这种办法也许并不起眼，但是它一旦真的被实施之后，就能产生巨大的效应。你也可以创新，你也可以成功。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 32</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、要让工作成为乐趣的源泉。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">任何一项事业的背后，都需要一种无形的精神力量作为支撑。这种精神就是要像信仰神祗一样信仰职业，像热爱生命一样热爱工作的敬业精神。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 33</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、巧舌可免祸。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">中国人常说祸从口出，却很少强调口能免灾，这对我们的嘴巴是不公允的。在关键时刻如商业谈判、法庭辩护和解除误会时，若嘴巴不帮我们的忙，我们就会遭受重大损失。至于嘴巴能帮到什么程度，那就看我们舌功如何了。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 34</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、学习是快乐的，成功是学来的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">人们的学习从呱呱坠地时开始，到了一命呜呼时才算毕业。在这期间人们学习了好多生存的本领，同时也享受了学习本身的乐趣。一个人学习什么，决定了他将会成为什么人。平庸是不学来的，伟大是学习来的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 35</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、捧场都上场，拆台都下台。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">在任何一个团体内都需要成员之间的相互合作，而不是相互拆台，这样才会共赢。正如俗话所言：捧场都上场，拆台都下台。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 36</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、行动的意义胜于一切。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">“现在就去做”可以影响你生活中的每一部分，它可以帮助你去做该做而不喜欢做的事；它会帮你抓住宝贵的刹那，幸运之神很可能就在这刹那之间投入你的怀抱。但如果一旦错过这个刹那，很可能永远不会再碰到。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 37</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、不该你干的事就别干。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">每个人在社会和家庭中都有自己相对固定的位置和权限，如果越位去考虑或从事自己权限之外的事，你就要承担本该由别人来承担的责任和义务。干好了，等于抢了别人的机会和功劳，干坏了是自取其辱。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 38</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、要做一个看时代脸色行事的人。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一个人能审时度势是很重要的，有了这种本领便会知道自己当下应该采取何种姿态，今后应该往何处行进，否则就会成为一个精神上的肓者，像一只无头的苍蝇到处乱撞。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 39</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、话要说到点子上。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">常言道<span lang=EN-US>:</span>“鼓要敲在点子上，蛇要打在七寸处”，讲的就是为人话不在多，而在于关键时刻能因地制宜地讲出关键的话来，从而起到四两拔千斤的作用。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 40</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、讲道德是一种立足长远的好投资。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">德性是具有磁性的，久而久之，有德之人的周围就会聚足人气，而且芳名远播，形成一种无形而又无价的品牌，这是成功的最大助力。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 41</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、人人需要赞美，你我皆不例外。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">人性中最本质的愿望就是希望得到赞赏。一句真诚赞扬的话，有时能改变自己一生的命运，也能改变别人一生的命运。在日常生活中，如果我们能善用赞美之法，会在交际中起到意想不到的奇妙作用。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 42</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、能使耳朵增值的不是金坠，而是倾听。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">善于倾听的人，才会像一个精细的淘金匠那样，从别人大量语言矿石中提炼出我们最需要的成分。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 43</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、你资历再深，也决不可轻视新人。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">每个时代的人都有每个时代的特征，历史是一代又一代人不懈努力、生生不息、薪火相传的过程，也是继承前人、超越前人、开拓新的生活、创造新的辉煌的过程。纵观历史长河，正是长江后浪推前浪，一代更比一代强。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 44</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、要看日出的人必须守到拂晓。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">罗马非一日造就，成功是聚沙成塔的结果。有骆驼一样的耐心，才能找到事业沙漠中的绿洲。真正的成功是需要时间的，而恒心和坚贞就是能帮助人们取得最终成功的一种伟大的优点。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 45</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、简单生活中才有生命的原汁原味。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">饮食原本是能维持我们生命的东西，音乐原本是高兴了在旷野里拖长嗓子吼叫……如今这一切都变得非常复杂了。让我们提升境界将其还原，过一过简单的生活，因为简单生活中才有生命的原汁原味。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 46</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、人生各个阶段都有必须注意的事项。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">如果你年纪轻轻，我们要说，老弟，女色当前悠着点儿；如果你年富力强，我们要说，老兄，与人竞争别扮斗鸡相儿；如果你年纪一大把，我们要说，老爷爷，余下的时间可别那么贪。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 47</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、热爱节俭是一切美德的根本。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">俭的本身需要约束，需要克制，所以俭的过程可能是有痛苦的。但是，有了约束，有了克制，人就降低了奢望，抑制了贪欲，减少了烦恼，因而俭的结果往往又是幸福的，快乐的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 48</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、凡事要多为别人想一想。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">我们眼里要有他人，心里也要为别人着想。这世界并不是我一个人生活在其中，这世界还有许许多多其他的人，他们和我一样，我生活，也要让别人生活。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 49</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、有了成绩不要居功自傲。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">每个人都在试图成为重要人物，都可能是功劳的竞争者。如果你居功，那么你的功就可以被争夺和驳倒；如果你不居功，那个功也就无法从你身上拿走<span lang=EN-US>----</span>因为那个功根本就没有提出来过，怎么可能被争夺和驳倒呢？<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 50</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、做事要有分寸感。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一个有分寸感的人，就是一个做事得体、说话微妙，言行进退有度的人，在刚柔张弛之间透出一种力量感和智慧感。这样的人，在成功的路上必定会走得顺风顺水。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><font color=#00b0f0><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312" lang=EN-US> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体" lang=EN-US> 51</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">、不要做一个巧言令色的人。</span></font></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><font size=4><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; COLOR: #993300; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"></span></font><font color=#00b0f0> </font></p> 随喜赞叹！！！德不孤必有邻
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