老兵日志 发表于 2020-4-17 22:38

(夜读)夫妻的相处方式,暴露了婚姻的本质

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">结婚,究竟是为了什么?</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">在《我家小两口》里,大张伟坦言,自己结婚就是为了踏实。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">他说:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">“我结婚的目的就是踏实,因为我老觉得,全世界这么大的地方,但哪里都不是家。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">老有人说想去外边看一看,我从来不想看一看,我觉得外边反正花钱就能去,但家里不是花钱就能回来的。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">这一番话,引起了广泛的共鸣。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">许多人说,结婚前,总想着你侬我侬,憧憬着花前月下。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">结婚后恍然明白,理想的婚姻,不过就是和踏实的人在一起,踏踏实实过日子。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">人越往后,见多了悲欢离合,看过了世事变迁,就越容易参透婚姻的意义。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">终其一生,我们想要的婚姻不过如此:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">不求感天动地的轰轰烈烈,只求平淡琐碎中的踏实相守;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">不求山盟海誓里的甜言蜜语,只求说到做到的事事回应;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">不求大富大贵下的锦衣玉食,只求柴米油盐里的充实安稳。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">轰轰烈烈,不如踏实相守</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">韩剧《我的女孩》中,女主角周幼琳有两个追求者:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">一个是冷静稳重的酒店常务薛功灿,一个是潇洒浪漫的富家公子徐正雨。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">徐正雨爱得炙热,轰轰烈烈。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">在追求周幼琳的过程中,带她到顶楼用望远镜观赏星空,吃饭时假装中奖给她送手机,时不时制造各种惊喜和刺激。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">徐正雨满足了周幼琳对爱情的所有美妙憧憬和向往。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">但最后,周幼琳却选择了和不太会讨女孩子欢心的薛功灿结婚。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">为什么?</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">原因其实很简单:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">徐正雨固然浪漫,但他花心,永远只想着及时行乐,让人没有踏实感。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">比如在看电影或小说的时候,他只要被某个场景或情节所吸引,就马上收拾行李出发到那个地方去。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">不管是什么样的地方或什么样的人,都不能把他固定在一个地方。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">这样的他,让人没有安全感,当朋友可以,可是不适合托付终身;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">而薛功灿,虽然不会搞浪漫,但他贴心靠谱,让人心安。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">在周幼琳喝醉后,他哪怕工作很紧,也会寸步不离地陪在她身边悉心照顾;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">怕周幼琳在人群中被挤丢,就默默在身后跟着她。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">虽然都是一些小举动,却让周幼琳心里很是温馨踏实。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">所以最终,他成了周幼琳往后余生的归宿,而徐正雨,只能是周幼琳生命中一个暂时停留的港湾。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">有句话这么说:“心动只能维持一阵子,心定才能一起一辈子。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">爱情可以轰轰烈烈,但婚姻要长长久久,终究要靠漫长岁月里的踏实相守。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">想起网上曾经有个调查,婚姻里那些让你幸福的瞬间都是什么?</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">意外的是,大多数答案,不是什么花前月下的卿卿我我,朝朝暮暮的山盟海誓。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">而是饥饿时的一碗面,加班回家时亮着的一盏灯,以及一起洗衣、做饭、做家务的温馨,一起逛街、购物、遛娃的安稳。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">甚至是偶尔帮忙挠痒痒的知足。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">婚姻,终究是细水长流的。轰轰烈烈相爱,不如踏踏实实相守。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">张爱玲曾在书里写:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">“我一直在寻找一种感觉,那种在寒冷日子里,牵起一双温暖的手,踏实向前走的感觉。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">恋爱的时候,每个女孩都痴迷白马王子或盖世英雄,期待拥有惊天动地的爱情。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">待世事变迁,尘埃落定后,我们却只想找一个在俗世的柴米油盐中,能给予自己踏实感的居家好男人。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">因为,尘世的屋檐下,多的是平淡无奇,少的是跌宕起伏。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">当激情褪去,你终会发现,偶像剧般的轰轰烈烈,大多都有虚构的成分,无法落地生根。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">只有琐碎日常里的踏实守候,才是最让人心定的。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">油嘴滑舌,不如踏实行动</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">综艺节目《妻子的浪漫旅行》里,李娜的丈夫姜山,从一开始被嫌刻板无趣,钢铁直男,到后来被称为最接地气、最令人心安的“爹系老公”,他只做了一件事:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">那就是从不油嘴滑舌,永远只踏实行动。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">节目中,相比其他老公的情话张口就来,他显得格格不入,不善言辞,没有一点儿浪漫细胞,不会说什么好听的甜言蜜语。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">但他把对李娜的爱,全都化在了平时的一举一动里。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">知道李娜喜欢美甲,他就特意跑到美甲店学习美甲技能,想把她的指甲涂得漂漂亮亮;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">李娜在热气球上给他发视频,他不忍心接,只是为了让她不要分心,好好欣赏美景;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">当初为了成就李娜,在什么都还不确定的时候,他就毫不犹豫地牺牲掉自己的事业,全力支持李娜,充当起了李娜的“保姆”。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">陪李娜训练,帮忙捡球;</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">临近比赛给她买机票、订酒店,比赛中寸步不离地加油打气,比赛后贴心地给李娜调节心理。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">他用日复一日无怨无悔的实际行动,让人看到了一个男人可以为妻子付出的最大真心。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">有句话说得好:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">“关系靠走动,真爱靠行动。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">这世间所有幸福的婚姻,只有落到实处才有价值,也只有付诸行动才有意义。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">《爱情保卫战》里,曾出现过这么一对夫妻。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">妻子吐槽说,丈夫平日里花言巧语,好听的话每天能说一箩筐,但是从来不行动,是一个妥妥的甩手掌柜。于是,说什么都要跟丈夫离婚。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">成年人的爱,早已不再是怦然心动的感觉,不再是信誓旦旦的承诺,而是实实在在为对方做了什么。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">用花里胡哨的甜言蜜语维持的婚姻,终究如雾里看花,水中望月一样虚无缥缈,让人心里不踏实。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">只有落到实处的行动,才能给人足够的安心。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">正如涂磊所说:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">“婚姻不是建立在轻松的谈天说地上,而是建立在长期的行为和付出里。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">油嘴滑舌说一堆,不如踏实行动做一件。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">荣华富贵,不如踏实安稳</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">热播剧《安家》里,由胡可饰演的阚太太的遭遇,令人感慨万千。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">剧中,阚太太和阚先生白手起家,打拼多年,终于成了上海数一数二的大富大贵之家。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">两人儿女双全,住着最豪华的别墅,开着最名贵的车子。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">可以说,想要的荣华富贵都有了,但阚太太却没有了幸福:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">阚先生婚内出轨,甚至还要给第三者买套2000万的房子。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">微博里有位网友说,看完这段剧情,突然觉得自己很幸福。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">虽然日子不是大富大贵,老公也不是帅气多金。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">但他对自己足够忠心,对家庭足够上心,日子波澜不惊,但安稳踏实,让人心安。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">果然,婚姻里那一份风雨相依,彼此相爱的踏实稳定,终究比缺了安全感的荣华富贵,更令人称羡。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">就像《小欢喜》里的方圆和童文洁,哪怕职场屡遭打击,生活一地鸡毛,有时候连儿子的补课费都拿不出来,但彼此一直鼓励对方,两人始终力往一处使,心往一处靠,成为彼此相互依靠的港湾。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">一切物质终究只是筹码,只有内心那一份雷打不动的踏实,才是最大的甜。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">电影《搜索》里,业界名流沈流舒的妻子莫小渝,既有出入高端场所的身份,又有肆意支配金钱的资本,但却过得比谁都没有安全感。霸道花心的丈夫,让她永远患得患失。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">为了保住婚姻,不断地怀疑、跟踪、使小手段、道歉、讨好……</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">这样的日子,纵使家财万贯,心里终究是苦的。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">即便财富无数,内心却风雨飘摇,不安稳。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">巴尔扎克曾说:</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">“婚姻的幸福度,并不完全建立在显赫的身份和财产上。”</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">婚姻里,豪华奢侈的生活并不一定就能代表幸福。能让你感到安心,有安全感的,从来不是锦衣玉食。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">而是哪怕粗茶淡饭也能彼此相爱,互相扶持的那一份踏实。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">余生,和踏实的人在一起</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">生活里,经常听到有人说,TA恋爱可以,但不适合结婚。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">归根到底,不过是那个人少了一份过日子的踏实感。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">婚姻是风雨相依的两人世界,也是烟火红尘里的平凡守候。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">我们终其一生寻找的,不过就是一个愿意踏踏实实守在自己身边的靠谱之人。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">他不需要会搞很多的浪漫,会说很多的情话,也不需要财富无数。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">只需要在朴素平淡的柴米油盐里,与自己踏实相守,给予自己关怀、理解和一份心有依靠的现世安稳。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">往后余生,要和踏实靠谱的人在一起。</span></div>

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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">因为,无论什么时候,只有和踏实的人在一起,才有生活的安全感、婚姻的踏实感以及漫漫岁月里互相治愈的温暖感。</span></div>
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