(夜听)中年夫妻：床上无爱，床下随便
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<div style="text-align:center"><p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><span style="font-family:华文行楷;"><span style="font-size:32px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color:#c0392b;">无话婚姻，比无性婚姻更可怕
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">恋爱时，我们无话不说，结婚后，却渐渐无话可说。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻最大的绝症，就是无话可说。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">小敏和老公结婚七年，外人看来，他们夫妻双方事业小成，老人也健康，看起来是最没有压力的一对。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但只有小敏自己知道，他们的婚姻到底出了什么问题。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她和老公，有将近一年的时间，没有好好说过一句话了，尤其上半年孩子去了爷爷奶奶家后，他们家里显得更冷清。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每天下班回来，两人各玩各，一个霸占书房，一个独占卧室，互不打扰，也互不关心。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多时候，她想找老公聊一聊，但是对方不是嗯、哦之类的敷衍，就是干脆不回答。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每次听朋友们和她吐槽自己跟老公吵架，她都在心里暗暗羡慕，她和她老公现在连吵架的机会都没有。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有个名词叫“婚姻失语症”，就是说：从交往时期的无所不谈，到婚后的柴米油盐，渐渐无话可谈。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数婚姻出现问题，就是从没有话说开始。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们明明是最亲密的人，但是却没有了任何互动；明明睡在一张床上，但是心却有了很大的距离。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">就像一对不得不住在一起的陌生室友，各忙各的，各过各的，无话可说，渐渐也会无爱可做。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">曾经有读者在后台分享过自己的婚姻，结婚10年，她在老公朋友圈出现的次数，寥寥无几。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她以为是她老公生性冷淡，直到有次看到他和同事的聊天记录，才知道不是他冷漠，而是对妻子对家庭没有倾诉的欲望。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">好几次都想结束这种合约一样的婚姻，但是想着孩子这么小，真的狠不下心，只好就这么将就着。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而中年婚姻的死亡，往往不是大吵大闹到你死我活。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而是你的目光，已经不在我的身上，我的注意力，也很久没有落在你的身上。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们还会一起吃饭，一起睡觉，一起陪孩子长大，但是我们都不再重视对方，也不再爱对方。</span></span></span></p></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><span style="font-family:华文行楷;"><span style="font-size:32px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color:#c0392b;">床上无爱，床下随便</span></span></span></span></span></p></div>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们做的最错的一件事就是，对陌生人身上倾注的耐心，却比对家人都多。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">上周聊天的时候，闺蜜气愤地吐槽，结婚才几年，老刘对我竟然越来越敷衍了。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我询问原因，闺蜜气愤地说，元旦的那晚，本来说好了要去吃个大餐然后再看部电影。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">结果她兴冲冲化了半天妆，一问她老公计划去哪里，谁想人家一问三句随便：<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">吃什么随便，去哪里随便，看什么随便。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">最后她气得说不去了，她老公竟然一扭头又去打游戏了。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">前几年的时候，一到这些节日老刘比她积极多了，什么都是提前好久就计划好了，现在什么都不管，什么都是随便。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">闺蜜越说越气馁，最后都说出了后悔结婚这种话。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻到后来，很多人就渐渐忽略了伴侣的感受，好像我们除了是孩子爸妈，再无其他。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这种想法真的很伤人。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多中年夫妻日常的状态就是，虽然生活在一个屋檐下，但是你看你的韩剧，我看我的手机，彼此井水不犯河水，就像两条平行线，永不相交。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这种床上无爱，床下随便的状态，有时候想想，真的可悲。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">世界上没有完美的婚姻，真正的灵魂伴侣也不是永远和谐，婚姻最主要的还在于经营。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">任何关系的寡淡，都是从无话不说到无话可说的，夫妻更是如此，所以交流与沟通，是必不可少的。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在综艺节目《我家那闺女》中，papi酱曾经传授过一条婚姻相处之道：<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不管工作多忙，回家多晚，睡觉前夫妻两个人一定要聊天。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">千万不要小看这半小时，其实在婚姻中真的很重要。<br>
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<div><p><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size:28px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻不易，中年婚姻更不易，且行且珍惜，且行且付出。<br>
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