心理说：生活中四个有趣的微心理
<div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>生活中有许多有趣的现象，会让人们感觉到非常的吃惊，某些奇怪行为的产生，都是由于心理的作用，当你的内心稍微有些波动和变化的时候，你的行为也会出现相应的变化。而个体的心理又受周围环境的影响，例如当在夜晚的时候，人们的情感性会增强，这时候求爱成功的几率就会增加。微心理是指个体微小心理的变化，这些微小的变化，会让人们产生一些有趣的行为。</div><div class="pic" style='margin: 32px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(116, 116, 116); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><img class="img loaded" style="background: 0px 0px; padding: 0px; border-radius: 3px; border: 0px currentColor; min-height: 102px; min-width: 100px; max-width: 100%; animation: none;" alt="" src="https://p2.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t015de60adeab5b96f7.gif?size=500x235" data-was-processed="true"><div class="description" style="margin: 12px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(172, 172, 172); font-size: 0.6rem;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>周围的人都恋爱了，你也想恋爱了</div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>这是一个奇怪的现象，当你周围的朋友都恋爱了，你仿佛也会被周围的气氛所影响，也有想要恋爱的冲动。这从心理学上来说，这是一种同调行为，与他人产生同样行为的时候，内心就会有一种安全感，免去了与周围差异产生的压抑感。如同许多人排队买东西，你也会有冲动去买一样，就是与其产生相同的行为，一方面是满足自己的兴趣和好奇，另一方面就是保持内心的安宁。</div><div class="pic" style='margin: 32px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(116, 116, 116); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><img class="img loaded" style="background: 0px 0px; padding: 0px; border-radius: 3px; border: 0px currentColor; min-height: 102px; min-width: 100px; max-width: 100%; animation: none;" alt="" src="https://p2.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01e72c02aceea4344e.jpg?size=640x467" data-was-processed="true"><div class="description" style="margin: 12px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(172, 172, 172); font-size: 0.6rem;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>情话对左耳说最有效</div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>电影《左耳》中的一句台词是甜言蜜语是说给左耳听的，因为左耳离心脏更近一些。其实一些心理学家对这个现象进行过研究，通过实验调查，对着左耳说甜言蜜语，更能够俘获对方的芳心，这是因为左耳是由右脑控制的，右脑控制个体情绪情感的表达和识别，因此对于情感的体验会更加的敏感。</div><div class="pic" style='margin: 32px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(116, 116, 116); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><img class="img loaded" style="background: 0px 0px; padding: 0px; border-radius: 3px; border: 0px currentColor; min-height: 102px; min-width: 100px; max-width: 100%; animation: none;" alt="" src="https://p4.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01e24f78439253cc30.jpg?size=640x401" data-was-processed="true"><div class="description" style="margin: 12px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(172, 172, 172); font-size: 0.6rem;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>帮助他人会让自己更快乐</div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>心理学家阿德勒说，治疗抑郁最快捷的办法，就是去帮助他人，从中就会获得快乐。我们每个人都需要自身价值的满足，而当你不求回报的去帮助他人，哪怕是一件微不足道的事情，也会让你感受到自己价值的体现，从中满足自己的内心，使得自我价值有所提升，因此会感受到一种快乐和欣慰的感觉。</div><div class="pic" style='margin: 32px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(116, 116, 116); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><img class="img loaded" style="background: 0px 0px; padding: 0px; border-radius: 3px; border: 0px currentColor; min-height: 102px; min-width: 100px; max-width: 100%; animation: none;" alt="" src="https://p4.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t019c06f0544f007e65.jpg?size=640x449" data-was-processed="true"><div class="description" style="margin: 12px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; color: rgb(172, 172, 172); font-size: 0.6rem;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>不要仰望别人，自己亦是风景</div><div class="paragraph" style='margin: 40px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); text-transform: none; line-height: 32px; text-indent: 1.6rem; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei"; font-size: 0.8rem; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(245, 246, 238); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>生活中我们总是会去仰望别人，看到的都是他人春风得意的样子，而自己就像是一个倒霉蛋。这是因为个体总是有低估他人负面情绪的倾向，而却过度的去关注自身的消极信息，其实每个人只要过好属于自己的生活，就会变得幸福和快乐。不要去仰望别人，自己亦是美丽的风景。</div> 问好老师，欣赏你带来的精彩文字 很增长知识的文字，欣赏学习了。 一缕浅秋清风，一滴秋露，拂去酷热的夏；一抹墨香，一曲悠扬，渲染一幅唯美画卷。感谢精彩分享，中画有你相伴更精彩，遥祝秋安！ 欣赏、学习朋友精采美文，很开心在这个虚拟的网络结识了您，愿这份友谊长存，真心的祝愿朋友永远幸福快乐 !
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