(音乐美文)学会欣赏别人，是一种修养，更是一种智慧
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(38, 38, 38)">人无完人，我们每个人都有自己的长处和短处。因此，妄自菲薄和恃才傲物都是不可取的，它只会使人沦于平庸。而正确的欣赏别人就会使平庸变得优秀，使自卑变得坚强，使消沉变得进取，使自满变得谦逊。学会欣赏别人，是一种修养，更是一种智慧！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(38, 38, 38)">欣赏，就是赞美、鼓励，即对别人的个性、特长、言行、优点和成就发自内心的褒扬称赞。人生旅途中，欣赏是一种最容易获得的愉悦。欣赏别人是一种境界，一种涵养，一种素质；是对人家的一种肯定、一种理解、一种尊重；欣赏别人，既是一种给予，又是一种沟通、一种祝福；还是一种智慧，因为你在欣赏别人的时候，也不断提升和完善自我；欣赏别人，也是一种美德，你付出了赞美，将收获友谊与合作。同时，欣赏别人又是一种人格修养。赞美别人的过程，其实也是自己矫正狭隘自私和嫉妒心理从而培育大家风范的过程。 不会欣赏别人的人，往往无法获取他人的信任和友情；不会欣赏别人的人，感受不到人间的真善美，心中易被一片愁云所笼罩。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(38, 38, 38)">学会欣赏别人，是一种修养，更是一种智慧！每一个人都渴望得到别人的欣赏，同样，每一个人也应该学会去欣赏别人。欣赏与被欣赏是一种互动的力源，因此，学会欣赏，应该是一种做人的美德，肯定了别人也是肯定了自己。欣赏别人，可以使自己的人格变得高尚。用一种豁达的心态去享受别人的成功，用一种欣赏的眼光去肯定别人的成功，你人生的境界会因此而得以提升。欣赏别人，可以建立一种健康和谐的人际关系，学会欣赏别人，人与人肯定会多一份融洽少一点隔阂。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(38, 38, 38)">当然，欣赏别人不是廉价的吹捧，不是无原则的夸奖。欣赏别人，不是投其所好的精神按摩，更不是卑躬屈膝的精神行贿。欣赏别人是建立在客观事实基础之上的真实判断。学会欣赏别人，是一种修养，更是一种智慧！欣赏别人是一种豁达的风度和胸怀。发现别人的进步，为别人的成绩而喝彩。我们应该学会欣赏别人，这样才会被别人欣赏。欣赏别人就是欣赏自己。愿我们都学会去欣赏别人和被别人欣赏！</span>
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