《论语》开篇三句话，原来是人生的三种大境界
<p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>开卷有益，益处何在?</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>孔夫子告诉我们:古之学者为己，今之学者为人。读书，为的是提升自己的学识与修养。不是为了在人前卖弄。读《论语》，最重要的是要将夫子所言与我们的生活生命结合起来，仔细体会涵养，用生活证悟，用生命践行。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>而《论语》开篇第一章就意义重大，启人深思，值得细细品读。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>“学而时习之，不亦说乎;有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎;人不知而不愠，不亦君子乎。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>开宗明义，给我们指出一条向上之路。人生三条路径、三种境界，都包含其中。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p4.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01092ddc428bda4487.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'> </p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>慎独的境界</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>学而时习之，不亦说乎。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>人生天地之间，由懵懂孩童到所知甚多，全在一个学字，学是每个人不可须臾离开的，懂得学习，善于学习，奠定了我们一生进步发展的根基。学而不思则罔，思而不学则殆。只会单纯吸收现成的知识，缺乏自己的独立思考判断，知识再多，也只是两脚书橱，与人生无关，与智慧无关。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>要将学习与我们的生命发生关系，有益于身心的发展，就必不可少的需要“慎独”的功夫，慎独，能使人防微杜渐，防患于未然。古人云，“勿以恶小而为之，勿以善小而不为”“不矜细行，终累大德”，讲的就是慎微的道理。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>古人云，“莫见乎隐，莫显乎微，故君子慎其独也”，意喻隐匿和微小处更现真心，一个人独处时更要严格要求自己，谨慎小心。古人看到了独处和细微处放松自己的危害，倡导慎独慎微，提倡“吾日三省吾身”。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>东汉时，东莱太守杨震虽有恩于王密，却坚辞王密送来的十斤黄金。王密劝他:“暮夜无人知。”杨震说:“天知，神知，子知，我知。何言无人知!”“暮夜却金”的佳话成为慎独之典范。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>唐代诗人白居易任杭州刺史期间，因从天竺山上取了两片石头而感到十分惭愧。晚年离任后，仍心有介怀，专门赋诗:“三年为刺史，饮冰复食檗。唯向天竺山，取得两片石。此抵有千金，无乃伤清白。”道出了“勿以恶小而为之”“君子慎其微”的感叹。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p2.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01bdc657cd4fe221d0.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>君子的境界</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>薛仁贵尚未得志之前，住在破窑洞中，衣食无着落，全靠王茂生夫妇经常接济。后来，薛仁贵参军，跟随唐太宗御驾东征时，功劳卓著，封为“平辽王”。一登龙门，身价百倍，前来送礼祝贺的文武大臣络绎不绝，都被薛仁贵婉言谢绝了。他唯一收下的是普通老百姓王茂生送来的“美酒两坛”。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>打开酒坛装的不是美酒而是清水!当众饮下三大碗送来的清水。在场的官员不解其意，薛仁贵喝完三大碗清水之后说:“我过去落难时，全靠王兄弟夫妇经常资助，没有他们就没有我今天的荣华富贵。如今我美酒不沾，厚礼不收，却偏偏要收下王兄弟送来的清水，因为我知道王兄弟贫寒，送清水也是王兄的一番美意，这就叫君子之交淡如水。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>《庄子•山木》:“且君子之交淡若水，小人之交甘若醴;君子淡以亲，小人甘以绝。” 君子之间的交情不是建立在金钱或利益上的，很纯粹。而小人之间的交情犹如甜酒一般，表面甜美实际虚伪。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>孔子说过:“有益的朋友有三种，有害的朋友有三种。结交正直的朋友，诚信的朋友，知识广博的朋友，是有益的。结交谄媚逢迎的人，结交表面奉承而背后诽谤人的人，结交善于花言巧语的人，是有害的。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p4.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t0169a94143cced570e.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>高人的境界</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>人不知而不愠，不亦君子乎。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>在现实生活中，自己的行为一时不被别人理解的情况是会经常发生的。道德修养较高的人对此或者耐心地加以解释，或者泰然处之，让别人慢慢理解。道德修养差的人则或者沮丧，或者恼怒，但结果总是适得其反。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>柳下惠作士师，等于管刑法的官。他三次上台，三次都被罢免下台，于是有一个人对他说，你何必一定要在鲁国做事，出国去吧!你自己国家不要你，何必一定干，到别的国家说不定有更好的地位。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>柳下惠答复他说，一个人终身行直道，思想、行为、做事完全直的，走正路，来做家的部下，在任何一个国家**做事，都是一样会有问题，都要吃亏，会被挤下来的。如果以歪曲的心思，用手段来取得地位，以得功名富贵为荣耀，并不想真为国家**做事的，那又何必离开自己父母之国呢?祖宗都在这里，一样可以做事。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>换句话说，随便在哪里，决不走歪路，而走正路，在任何**都是一样比较困难的。柳下惠的人品就在这里，以正道事人，以正道立身处世，忽视功名富贵。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>柳下惠此举可以说是正合道家所谓“和光同尘”，和光同尘，就是要含敛光耀，混同尘世，不要标新立异，不要过分张扬自己的特殊之处，融入**，融入周围的环境。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>从而达到玄妙齐同的境界，所谓:“沧浪之水清兮，可以濯吾缨;沧浪之水浊兮，可以濯吾足。” 沧浪江的水清澈啊，可以洗我的冠缨。沧浪江的水浑浊啊，可以洗我的脚。</p> 问好，欣赏你带来的精彩！ 我也来看看人生有哪三大境界，好文字，长知识，为你点赞！ 春天迈着轻盈的脚步，向我们走来，过去的一年感谢对中画论坛的支持。新年将至，一如既往送上深深的祝福，恭祝：狗年新春愉快！感谢精彩分享，中画有你更精彩！
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