活着，让自己高兴；做人，让别人舒服！
<p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>无论何时何地，都能被向善和向上的力所牵引。在自我设定的自由空间里，用心地付出，尽情地徜徉，不亦乐乎？</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 700;">1. 活着，让自己高兴。</strong></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>著名导演冯小刚说：“年过半百终于活明白了，让自己高兴才是真格的，其他全是瞎掰。钱挣得再多又怎么样，能带走吗？去西山采景，看了十几座百年大宅，主人均已无处可寻，拿钥匙的全是不相干的人。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>钱财，够用就行，挣得再多，真的带不走一文。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>人生的关键是，要让自己活得开心，活出真性情、真境界和真意义，如此最好。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>谁规定每个人一定要活得精彩？我本平凡，不求精彩，只求自在。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>活着就是胜利，挣钱只是游戏，健康才是目的，快乐更是真谛。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p2.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t015d188fee01e02bae.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>《菜根谭》：“一场闲富贵，狠狠争来，虽得还是失；百岁好光阴，忙忙过了，纵寿亦为夭。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>意思是：拼命争来一场对生命无意义的富贵，即使得到了，还不如不要；匆匆忙忙度过百年光阴，即使寿命很长，也如夭折，在红尘俗世中，多数人并不觉得轻松。生计的奔波，人事的琐碎，交织成了生活。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>熙攘间，我们都忘记了初始的面目。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>世上本无枷，心锁困住人。抓到的都是空气，想起的都是回忆。当叹息已失去了气味，就让一切都不留痕迹。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p2.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01b86611c06e5837b6.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>不论这个世界多么糟糕，你自己的世界一定要精彩；不论人心多么黑暗，你的内心一定要明亮。不要用糟糕去对付糟糕，不要用黑暗去对付黑暗。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>也许，行走的意义，就在于繁华看尽后，心灵的自由。而我们如此执着，只是因为，生命只有一次。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>身外之物何须执着，言外之意不必猜忌，淡看世界的热闹，也笑看世界的冷清。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>我们的幸福和快乐，需要在生活中慢慢感受，用心体会，而不是靠别人的赞誉和认可编织而成，活着，不给别人添堵；更重要的是，要让自己高兴。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p0.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01d7a52a80f25a0580.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 700;">2. 做人，让别人舒服。</strong></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>《菜根谭》：“处世让一步为高，退步即进步的张本；待人宽一分是福，利人实利己的根基。”</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>意思是：为人处事，以遇事都要让一步的态度，才是高明的人，因为让一步就等于是为日后进一步留下了余地；待人接物，以抱宽厚态度对人，才是有福的人，因为给人家方便就是日后给自己留下方便的基础。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>古人所说的“让一步”“宽一分”，其实就是在人际交往中让别人舒服。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>有的人生怕别人舒服，尽量让别人不舒服，而只要自己舒服就行，其最终结果是，你不让别人舒服，别人就会让你不舒服。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p4.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01d8b99cf265d212b8.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>让别人舒服，就是替他人着想。首先要照顾人性中无伤大雅的虚荣。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>比如说，古人有这样一句俗话，“逢人减寿，见货添钱”。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>尽管人人都巴不得自己活得尽可能长寿，但是年纪大的人都不愿意别人说出自己的真实年龄，而是希望别人把自己的年纪说的越小越好，所以猜测别人年龄的时候，要尽可能猜的小一点，意思是对方像年轻人一样健康，还可以像年轻人一样长久地享受生命的欢乐。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>看到别人买的东西，应该把价格猜的比实际价值稍微贵一些，这才容易显出对方有眼力，会买东西。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'><img style="margin: 0px auto; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; vertical-align: middle; display: block; word-wrap: break-word !important; max-width: 100%;" src="https://p3.ssl.cdn.btime.com/t01492eb6b13d2c9531.jpg"></p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>让别人舒服，其次是要照顾别人的利益和面子，都说“谈钱伤感情”，但是很多时候，不谈钱才伤感情，所以正确的做法是，在别人关心钱而又不好意思跟你谈钱的时候，你要主动谈钱。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>有时候开开玩笑，会让人舒服，而有时候开玩笑不当却会得罪人。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>其中要把握的原则是：有的玩笑，只能对愿意纵容你的人开；有的玩笑，只能对内心强大的人开；有的玩笑，只能对高智商的人开；有的玩笑，只能对高情商的人开。</p><p style='margin: 1.8em 0px 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\5B8B体"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;'>不必刻意让别人舒服，刻意对人好，过犹不及，有时候反倒会给别人压力，但是在公共场合，既使是无意中冷落了或者忽视了一个人，对他的伤害也是很大的，人都是好面子的。</p> 缘分啦，我先沙个发！ 活着就是胜利，挣钱只是游戏，健康才是目的，快乐更是真谛。 活着，让自己高兴。钱多了是累赘。 谢谢快乐带来的精彩分享。 一份美丽，来自惦记。一句祝福，来自心底。遥祝安好！学习中…… 两位好！欢迎来灌水
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