老兵日志 发表于 2018-1-17 16:04

(音乐美文)最好的幸福,是不羡慕任何人

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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)"><span>人真是一种奇妙的动物,明明过着自己的人生,却总把目光放在别人身上,仰望着、比较着,常常忘了走自己的路。轻易羡慕他人,其实并不值得。</span><br/>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)"><span>他人的美好,可能只是假象--人们向来对自己的生活求全责备,却把窥探到的他人的侧面无限放大,生出无端的羡慕。朋友圈大概是最容易滋生羡慕的地方了。当你刷到朋友发的照片,旅行、美食、各种聚会联欢,似乎他人总在享受生活,只有你在艰苦奋斗,因此倍感落寞。可是,你不知道的是,朋友圈有80%都是假象,每个人背后都有自己的辛酸,只是他们不愿意暴露在人前。我就有一个朋友,她的朋友圈分为“仅自己可见”和“所有人可见”,她的悲伤和苦恼,只设置“仅自己可见”,而把开心的样子展现给所有人。谁不是努力熬过所有生活的苦,别人也没你想的那么好,不羡慕不嫉妒,是最好的修养。</span><br/>
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<div style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: left; margin: -125px 0px 0px;" align="center"><embed height="650" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" allownetworking="internal" width="770" allowscriptaccess="never" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://yun.365.sh/s/GNmay1.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" /></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)"><span>互相羡慕,不如自我欣赏--张爱玲说:“生活是一袭华美的袍,上面爬满了跳蚤”,生活从来不是十全十美、一帆风顺。没有人永远是光鲜亮丽的,就像没有人会一直挣扎在黑暗里。其实我们也一定活在他人的风景里,被欣赏和仰望,只是我们不自知。不同的人都有不同的追求,你羡慕我爱情甜蜜,我羡慕你单身自由,你羡慕我涨薪升职,我羡慕你家庭幸福,身家百亿的富翁一样会羡慕着海边晒太阳的渔夫……到头来,我们谁也无法正确认知自己。梅须逊雪三分白,雪却输梅一段香,每个人都是独一无二的自我。互相羡慕,不如学会欣赏自我,发现自己身上的闪光点,欣赏自己,你才会越来越美丽!</span><br/>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)"><span>羡慕他人,不如提高自己--沉浸在对他人的仰望中,只能让自己酸了脖颈,回来走自己的路才是最能治愈的良药。不要安于自己的现状,那些对优秀的渴望应该化作自己变优秀的动力。看到朋友圈里晒马甲线时,请放下手中的膨化食品去运动;别人家的孩子成绩拿满分时,请拿起书本多一点时间辅导孩子;曾经的同学从家境贫寒逆袭到身价百万,也正是自己明天不睡懒觉的理由……只有通过漫长的跋涉、不懈的坚持,我们才能得到曾经羡慕的一切。用更多的书、走更多的路来充实自己,学会感恩和知足,强大的内心使你不必总是仰望他人,而是脚踏实地专注好自己的生活。</span><br/>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">最好的幸福,是不轻易羡慕他人,当你不羡慕,不嫉妒,不在意,你才能摈弃一切杂念去修炼最好的自己。<br/>
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