相濡以沫却厌倦到终老，相忘于江湖却怀念到哭泣
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<DIV style="MARGIN: -980px 0px 0px;" align="center" ><FONT color="#ff9900" ><EMBED height="980" allowNetworking="internal" width="650" allowScriptAccess="never" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://webftp.bbs.hnol.net/zyfx/flash/09.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" >
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">人们常说，相濡以沫，不如相忘于江湖。意思是说，相爱的两个人，与其在一起没有幸福和未来，不如放弃执著，忘却彼此，也便不会有痛苦。也比喻在困境中相互扶持，不如相忘于世间。或许，能够放弃，能够忘记，也是一种幸福。然而，造化弄人，生活却往往并非我们所愿。能够相守一生的人，并不一定是你所爱的；想要相忘于江湖的人，却终生难忘。世间的感情莫过于两种：一种是相濡以沫，却厌倦到终老；另一种是相忘于江湖，却怀念到哭泣。
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<DIV style="MARGIN: -980px 0px 0px;" align="center" ><FONT color="#ff9900" ><EMBED height="980" allowNetworking="internal" width="650" allowScriptAccess="never" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://webftp.bbs.hnol.net/zyfx/flash/09.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" >
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">现实生活中往往也是这样：原本相爱的两个人能够共苦，却不能同甘，在一起久了，只看到对方的缺点，却忽略了彼此的优点，就这样在相互埋怨和极度厌倦中虚度了一生。如果你的心是厌倦的，我想，你所看到的也只会是一个令人厌倦的世界。既然能够相濡以沫，为什么就不能相爱一生呢？柏拉图说：若爱，请深爱，如弃，请彻底。人生中最遗憾的，莫过于轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地坚持了不该坚持的。这个世界本来就是痛苦和幸福交织的娑婆世界，痛苦是常在的，幸福却是短暂的。我们要学会把握住这短暂的幸福瞬间，让幸福留驻，也让痛苦远离。
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">生活有太多的无奈，人生也有太多的曲折。有时候，不是我们无法改变，也不是我们无力去改变，而是失去了改变的想法和欲望。就这样在争争吵吵中，人生一晃到老。等到你幡然醒悟的那一天，想要重新去找回点点滴滴的幸福时光时，却发现幸福已经不在了。爱情有痛也有甜，生活有苦也有乐。人生不如意十之八九，没有谁的人生一直充满着欢声笑语。所以我们既要学会放下执念，更要懂得享受当下的快乐时光。
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">人生是一场相逢，又是一场遗忘。既然不能相濡以沫，也不能真心地相伴一生，那么就相忘于江湖吧。然而，世间多少相爱的人由于种种原因分开了，却一辈子都在怀念悲伤中度过。到头来，我们想要忘记的那个人，忘也忘不掉，放也放不下，最终却要用毕生的时光来怀念。既然不能相忘于江湖，不如相逢于江湖吧，不在怀念中哭泣，只在相逢中欢喜。也许，我们今生的相逢，纵使最后没有完美的结局，也是生生世世的因缘际会。不是吗？
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">也有人说，人的一生会遇到两个人，一个惊艳了时光，一个温柔了岁月。每个人来到世上，都是匆匆过客，那么多的往事来不及回忆，那么多的故事来不及品味，当然，还有那么多的人，来不及好好的遇见。也许，当你还没有感受到什么是惊艳，什么是温柔时，荏苒时光已悠悠老去，岁月山河也换了颜色。人生易老，世事无常。时间会治愈一切，也会冲淡一切。也许有一天，你就会发现，不管是怀念也好，厌倦也罢，历经时间的洗礼和锤炼，曾经的心心念念都变得云淡风轻了，一切都已经不再重要了。重要的是，你还年轻，我还未老，江湖中依然还有我们的传说。
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