(音乐美文)女人自己干得漂亮与嫁得漂亮，从不矛盾
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<p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:36px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">女人自己干得漂亮与嫁得漂亮，从不矛盾</span></p>
<p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">本文系漫心情原创 老兵综合网络制作配乐</span></p>
<div style="text-align:center"><img border="0" data-ratio="1" data-src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222553r6oglgnr7g6pnoqn.jpg" data-w="70" data-width="70%" height="0" src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222553r6oglgnr7g6pnoqn.jpg" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:70%;border-top-left-radius:70%;border-top-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-left-radius:70%;color:inherit;display:inline-block;height:auto !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;width:auto !important;visibility:visible !important" width="auto"></div>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">中国有句古话叫：干得好，不如嫁得好。女人作为世界的半边天，不管是实际行动中还是言语里，里里外外都是女人努力做事永远没有嫁个好男人来得重要。近两年，“干得好，不如嫁得好”的言论满天飞，认同的声音也铺天盖地袭来。此时，又有一大波人跳出来，言之凿凿地规劝广大女性朋友：女人一定经济独立，内心强大。他们说：“嫁得漂亮是不足以支撑一个女人一辈子都活得漂亮，只有自己干得漂亮才是才算是人生赢家。”或许是人们习惯了“非黑即白”的世界观，所以总是喜欢把二者对立起来看待。可事实是，作为女人的你可以既干得漂亮又嫁得漂亮的。</span></p>
<div style="text-align:center"><img border="0" data-ratio="1" data-src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222552p40sj4boxsu0oqzz.jpg" data-w="70" data-width="70%" height="0" src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222552p40sj4boxsu0oqzz.jpg" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:70%;border-top-left-radius:70%;border-top-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-left-radius:70%;color:inherit;display:inline-block;height:auto !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;width:auto !important;visibility:visible !important" width="auto"></div>
<p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">干得漂亮的女人，才能嫁得漂亮</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">不管你承不承认，恋爱与结婚确实不可能一样。婚姻很现实，夫妻双方的位置就像天平的两端。只有彼此旗鼓相当才有相对平衡的一刻，只有不相上下才会有举案齐眉的幸福。一个女人的衣食住行如果样样都想依靠男人，优秀的高品质的男人是不会看上你一眼。想要嫁得漂亮，不是肤白貌美大长腿就能简单搞定的。嫁得好的前提条件是：你是有能力干得漂亮的，即便遇见的那一刻你没有做得多么出色，可你必须具备这样的潜质。嫁得漂亮的另外一个隐藏意思是：能够被夸嫁得好的男人，一定是优秀的有责任的有能力的。这样的男人又岂会是满大街随便抓就有的呢。即便有，于万千人群中遇见的概率小之又小，这等好事又怎会人人可得呢？</span></p>
<div style="text-align:center"><img border="0" data-ratio="1" data-src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222552htuu7wuvqlu33dh3.jpg" data-w="70" data-width="70%" height="0" src="http://www.hbqswl.com/data/attachment/album/201703/19/222552htuu7wuvqlu33dh3.jpg" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:70%;border-top-left-radius:70%;border-top-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-right-radius:70%;border-bottom-left-radius:70%;color:inherit;display:inline-block;height:auto !important;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;width:auto !important;visibility:visible !important" width="auto"></div>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">嫁得漂亮后，要继续干得漂亮</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">看到模特昆凌嫁给周杰伦，人们说这个名不见经传的小姑娘嫁得真好；看到杨颖嫁给黄晓明后在娱乐圈风生水起，人们说这个女孩真是嫁得一个好老公。大众看到这些面孔从陌生到熟识，笃定是这些女人是因为嫁得漂亮才会出众。谁曾想：昆凌遇见周杰伦之前，在模特行业有一定成绩；杨颖在和黄教主交往前，在香港也有一方天地。人前的风光都是人后看不见的心酸，这些女人如果不是打铁还需自身硬，又哪能这么容易捡到这么优质的男人。最为关键的一点是：她们不把嫁得好当做最终目的，嫁得好只是人生中的一个选择。干得漂亮的女人，不会把自己一生的命运完完全全寄托在一个男人身上。毕竟好好做自己的事情才是主业，嫁得漂亮只是副加产品。这样的女人，一开始就不是为了嫁得漂亮，她们相信“嫁得好是给爱情，面包还是要自己挣。”因此，即便嫁给了众人赞赏的优质男，还是会选择继续打磨自己，拥抱更好的自己。正如奥巴马夫人米歇尔从小学业优异，跳级、就读专为天资聪慧的孩子们准备的天才班、最后进入哈佛法学院，得到了法律博士的学位。她已经嫁得很好，可她依旧十分努力。最新数据表明，有高达64%的美国民众对米歇尔抱有好感，比奥巴马还高出11%。这样的成绩非一蹴而就，也不是因为她是奥巴马夫人，所以美国民众喜欢。</span></p>
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<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">干得漂亮与嫁得漂亮，从来不矛盾</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">事实上，做得漂亮的概率要比嫁得漂亮的概率高很多。嫁得好像是买彩票，可能中奖也可能不中奖；做得好像是种地，在没有天灾祸害的情况下，是可以做到“一分耕耘一分收获”的。你若嫁得不漂亮，你可以努力干得漂亮；你若嫁得漂亮，请继续保持干得漂亮。若二者兼有，你就是当之无愧的人生赢家。嫁得漂亮得到爱情，干得漂亮能买面包，二者从来都不用站在对立面来看。</span></p>
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