(听美乐赏美文)没空说多了，人心就远了
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">所有拿没空当拒绝的借口的人，自以为很高明。但是，明眼人一眼就能看出来背后的真意。很多时候，不是不懂你说的没空，而是心知肚明懒得拆穿。如果不想见，不见就是。说多了没空，纵使每次都是不一样的借口，但结果却都是一样的，那就是疏远的两颗心。</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">真心待你的人，不会敷衍说没空--真心待你的人，不会总是敷衍地对你说没空。即使偶尔真的没空，也会真诚地说明，而不是拿没空当作借口和托词。其实，很多时候，判断一个人爱不爱你，看ta对你说话的态度就知道。敷衍，往往彼此都心知肚明。尽管表面上都装得很客气、很无奈，但是实际上彼此都心知肚明，就像没捅破的脆弱的窗纸。轻松地甩一句没空，是最不和气的应答。再激动的炽热心情，也会瞬间冰冻。对你不真心的人，不管何时都很忙，尤其是应付你的时候最忙碌。被看穿但没戳穿的敷衍，都是虚情假意的表现。不言而喻的不耐烦，大多时候，都浓缩在一句“没空”之中。看似无奈的回答，背后却是不屑的心。无论何时，总是拿没空敷衍、搪塞你的人，都不是真心待你。而真正忙碌的人，往往都不说没空。因为时间其实都是可以挤出来的，大多时候，选择性拒绝最常用的借口就是没空。一次次以没空为借口的敷衍，都暴露了隐藏在背后的不真诚的心。<p align="center" style="MARGIN-TOP:-500px;MARGIN-LEFT:0px"></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">冷冰冰的没空，是莫大的伤害--爱人之间，经常拒绝对方的热情邀约，冷冰冰地回复没空，是一种不尊重和伤害。总是对爱人说没空的人，大多心都不在爱人身上，或者说已经不爱了。其实，如果不是经常出去浪的人，偶尔询问时间想聚一下，完全是情有可原的。没有人会忙到连好好回复的时间都没有，真正的问题在于想不想花时间理会。冷冰冰的没空，总是最伤人心。哪怕多说一句，也能多少安慰一下被拒绝的人。吝惜时间，往往都是因人而异、差别对待。一而再、再而三地拿没空来拒绝，说白了不是拒绝邀约，而是已经拒绝了你这个人。脱口而出的没空，就这么简单粗暴的两个字，其中蕴含的厌烦，却是显而易见。最怕说完冷冰冰的没空之后，在意的人会受伤。满怀期待地来找你，得到的却是伤感情的没空，这种心理落差，最是让一个人心痛。没有希望，也就没有失望。相知的两个人，尤其忌讳突然开始冷冰冰地拿没空拒绝对方。冷冰冰的没空，不仅是伤害，更是无情的拒绝。<p align="center" style="MARGIN-TOP:-500px;MARGIN-LEFT:0px"></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">没空说多了，人心就远了--朋友每次找你相聚，你都回复没空；爱人每次找你一起出去，你也回复没空……久而久之，就没有人愿意再去找你。没空说多了，人心也就慢慢地远了。感情总是需要慢慢培养，但是让一段深厚的感情瞬间崩裂的，却只要一瞬。经常说没空，任何人都能明白这是什么意思。如果不想见，那就再也别见。朋友或爱人之间，包容都是有限度的。一次两次简单粗暴的没空，都可以谅解；但是说多了，就没什么意思了。纵使真的很忙，如果在乎，也总是能抽出一点时间的。最怕不考虑对方感受，说完没空就走人的，独留对方一人失望。人心都是如此，真心实意全都在一言一行中；而虚情假意，纵使再怎么伪装，也能被一眼看穿。说多了没空，彼此其实都心知肚明。没必要嚷嚷着抱怨，更没必要为此争辩。如果不再在乎，如果不再想见，那就安静地告别。可以说没空的机会，总是只有那么几次。用多了，心就凉了，人也就渐行渐远、后会无期了。<p align="center" style="MARGIN-TOP:-500px;MARGIN-LEFT:0px"></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">明明看到你在朋友圈发状态，但就是不回复我的信息；明明知道你不忙，但得到的回答却是你没空。我又不是不懂，你所谓的没空。理由再多，终究都是借口。被冷冰冰的没空伤了的心，只会心灰意冷。别总敷衍地说没空，大家都不傻。如果不想见，那就不见。没空说多了，人心就远了。<p align="center" style="MARGIN-TOP:-500px;MARGIN-LEFT:0px"></p>
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