(听美乐赏美文)相处不累的人，才值得交往
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">有句话说：“和不一样的人在一起，就会有不一样的生活的状态”。时间可贵，要想活出好的状态，就要与相处不累的人交往。
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">相处不累的人，特别懂你--“我不说，你不懂，这便是距离”，然而和相处不累的人在一起，你微小的情绪起伏波动他都能感受到。在他面前，你开心时，无须遮掩你的喜悦，他不会嫉妒你的好运，而是陪你一起快乐欣慰着；在你失意落魄时，也不必佯装坚强，他不会暗地里取笑你无能，而是会以旁观者的心态给你指点迷津，帮助你早日走出困境。和相处不累的人在一起，没有莫名的看不顺眼，没有勾心斗角的算计，也没有任何紧张局促之感，能够做最舒服最放松的自己。
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">相处不累的人，比较会说话--“口能吐玫瑰也能吐蒺藜”，和相处不累的人在一起交谈，仿佛就像是喝着茶，听着小曲，静看花开花落一样。他赞美你时，不会过分夸张，让你都觉得很假，而是实事求是；他批评你时，不会讽刺打击，让你觉得自己一无是处，而是诚恳地指出你的错误。你俩意见不一致时，他不会与你大吵大闹，非要让你接受他的意见，而是用温和的言语让彼此心平气和地讨论问题。良言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。人生在世，能够和说话让人舒服的人聊天，也是一种难得的幸福。
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">相处不累的人，很少麻烦你--我们感觉活得累，除了自身的生活压力外，还有很大一部分来源于那些总喜欢麻烦你的人。你手头宽裕点，就三番五次找你借钱，却绝口不提还钱的事，你若拒绝，他反而会说你小气；你的人脉广点，就让你找朋友给他帮忙，让你欠下一堆人情债。相处不累的人，是不会总麻烦你的，也不会让你为难，因为他明白每个人都有自己的生活，有自己的难处，帮忙是情分，不帮忙是本分，更不会拿出“不过举手之劳”这样的说辞，对你进行道德绑架。
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">时间越来越宝贵，能够尊重你、懂你的人并不多，舍不得麻烦你的人更少，所以你只需要把自己的时间留给那些相处不累的人。只有不累的感情，才能经得起生活的考验，走得更长远。
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