你对别人怎么样，别人就会对你怎么样
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<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">俗话说，种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆。有什么因，往往就会有什么样的果。与人相处，最需要将心比心。如果你对我好，我会牢记在心，并加倍对你好；如果你对我不好，那也休怪我无情，不讲客气。其实每个人心中都有一杆秤，谁怎么样，全都心知肚明。</span></p>
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<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">你若对我好，我会对你更好</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">对我好的人，我会懂得感恩和回报。如果你对我很好，我会好好珍惜，并且以感激之心对你更好。人和人之间关系的升温，往往就是在这种良性互动中产生的。有来有往，才能不失礼数和维系、促进感情。在一来一往中，不占别人的便宜，换位思考，懂得感激。这样的人，才能找到和拥有真心朋友。生活中，总有一些人，认为别人对ta的好是理所当然。所以ta心安理得地享受着被爱和包容，直到有一天，走出家门，融入**，才到处碰壁，发现肯无条件对ta好的人其实很少。**是个大熔炉，能褪去人的天真和不懂事，往往经历过挫折之后才明白家人的好。别人的一言一行其实你都能看在眼里，遇到除了父母之外还肯对你好的人不容易，所以更值得好好珍惜。真心对你好的人，也需要你拿热忱的真心来换，这样才不会让爱你的心变冷、变寒</span><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">。</span></p>
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<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">你若对我不好，那就休怪我不客气</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">包容也分人，包容也有限度，但是懦弱的人不懂，还自以为这是博爱、大度的精神。做人，不能愚昧，对你不好的人，不用委屈自己硬要当老好人。这样，只会让对方更加嚣张和得寸进尺，也会让自己违心不快乐。别人对你怎样，你就对别人怎样。如若他人对你不好，那你也犯不着矜持地客气。错把懦弱当善良的人，往往也分不清是非。被别人戏弄，或者算计，却还依然选择忽视，不管不顾自己的感受，选择对别人好的人，在别人眼里一般不是大气，而是傻。没有底线，让人任意践踏自己尊严的人，是没有原则的人。与人交往其实很简单，别人好意思对你不好，那你还不好意思对他不客气？不管是生活还是工作，真正让你觉得心累的，往往不是事情，而是你遇到的人。做事累了可以休息一下，然后马上能满血复活；但是心累的话，却需要很长时间才能治愈。对你不好的人，没必要记在心上，心里不痛快就反击，自己也好受点。</span></p>
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<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">将心比心，每个人心中都有一杆秤</span></p>
<div><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">在待人处事上，每个人心里都有一杆秤，谁怎么样，或许缄默不语，但总是心知肚明。将心比心，说起来容易，做起来很难。有时候，现实生活不允许我们，别人对你怎么样，你就对别人怎么样。或许迫于利益纠纷，或者被权势所压，很难随心所欲。想太多，终究还是因为放不下。人生没有什么大不了的。如果不能顺心地活着，那也就没什么意思了。做人很多时候就图个活得痛快。有话就说，不用藏着掖着。你对我好，我也对你好。你想占我便宜，门都没有。种下什么因，就能得出什么果。无视自己心中的那杆秤，违心地待人处事，往往容易让自己郁郁终生。想太多伤脑筋，干脆做个简单、明朗的人。将心比心，是最简单直白的道理。遵从自己的心，才能活得快乐。对你好的人，要记得ta的好，并懂得感恩和回报；对你不好的人，没必要委屈自己假装大度，有情绪就释放，这样自己才能开心了。老想占别人便宜的人，一般别人也不会让ta占到便宜。对别人掏心的人，往往也能换来别人的信任。从不计较个人得失，甚至宁愿吃一点亏的人，到头来是得了，而不是失了……<br>
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<p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold">其实每个人心里都有一杆秤，谁怎么样，全都心知肚明。你对别人怎么样，别人就会对你怎么样。因果关系，从来都是这么简单明了。</span></p>
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