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<embed allownetworking="none" allowscriptaccess="never" height="500" invokeurls="false" loop="false" menu="false" play="false" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" quality="high" src="http://up.51xxs.com/users/public/1477061964_527818.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="700" wmode="transparent"><p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">中国人一直很讲究一个“度”，常说的过犹不及就是这个意思，多了少了都不好。所以说万事须讲“度”，率性而为不可取，急于求成事不成，心慌难择路，欲速则不达，过分之事，虽有利而不为，分内之事，虽无利而为之，是为“度”。这个“度”其实就是分寸，也是人生当中最难把握的两个字。人，更应该懂得分寸。</span></p>
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<embed allownetworking="none" allowscriptaccess="never" height="500" invokeurls="false" loop="false" menu="false" play="false" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" quality="high" src="http://up.51xxs.com/users/public/1477061964_527818.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="700" wmode="transparent"><p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">一些人之所以能够一路顺风顺水，不仅仅在于他们的聪明、勤奋，也在于他们对人性的洞察，他们懂得什么叫恰如其分，什么叫不偏不倚，什么叫见好就收，一句话，他们能够把握分寸。做人做到恰如其分，是最高境界，事实上，把握好了人生分寸，就等于掌握了自己的命运。做事做到恰到好处，也是人生的一门学问！所以你要明白：</span></p>
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<embed allownetworking="none" allowscriptaccess="never" height="500" invokeurls="false" loop="false" menu="false" play="false" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" quality="high" src="http://up.51xxs.com/users/public/1477061964_527818.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="700" wmode="transparent"><p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">1、直爽并不等于言语毫无顾忌--我们说话是要讲究一些技巧的，不要总是把直爽当成口无遮拦的借口，不要总是说：“我这人就是性子直，你别介意啊！”性子直也不能成为当中揭人短处的理由啊！不分场合，不顾他人的说话，很容易把人家搞的下不来台，势必会遭人嫉恨。</span></p>
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<embed allownetworking="none" allowscriptaccess="never" height="500" invokeurls="false" loop="false" menu="false" play="false" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" quality="high" src="http://up.51xxs.com/users/public/1477061964_527818.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="700" wmode="transparent"><p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">2、见人宜说三分话--说话小心些，为人谨慎些总是无害的。一个毫无城府、喋喋不休的人，会因显得浅薄俗气、缺乏涵养而不受欢迎。俗话说得好：上帝之所以给人一个嘴巴、两只耳朵，就是要人多听少说。</span></p>
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<p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">3、千万不能口无遮拦--不要试图窥探别人的隐私；不能故意渲染和张扬对方的错误；说话留有余地；不能强人所难；说话不能不看时机。</span></p>
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<p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">4、很好的话题也要适可而止--即使一个很好的题材，说时也要适可而止，不可拖得太长，否则会令人疲倦，若不能引发对方发言，或必须仍由你支撑局面，就要另找新鲜题材，如此才能把对方的兴趣维持下去。</span></p>
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<p style="margin:0px auto;padding:9px 4px 14px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;clear:both;min-height:1em;border-top-left-radius:8px;border-top-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-right-radius:8px;border-bottom-left-radius:8px;border:4px solid rgb(255, 100, 80);text-align:center;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:仿宋, 仿宋_GB2312;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">5、多多读书，忌浅薄无知--没有人会喜欢一个浅薄无知、满口粗话的人，所以多读书、多学习，做一个有内涵的人，这对你的人生是很有帮助的。“分寸”极其重要而又极难把握，它可谓是一门人生的艺术，你精通了这门艺术，也就把握了人生的命运。</span></p>
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