(美文欣赏)老伴
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">“老伴”，真是个令人动容的字眼。内含的，不仅是爱，更是一种不可取缔的地位。从新婚燕尔要修炼到“老伴”这个级别，比从小公务员升到局级职位要难上加难，这里得有多少包容、承担、信任、欣赏和忠诚……</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">当两人开始互称“老伴”，夫妻之间才真正进入佳境：你不讨厌他的“地中海”、啤酒肚，他只关心你的“三高”，不再在意你的“三围”。许多曾经十分敏感的话题，例如你们前度男（女）友的名字，那曾经令你或他耿耿于怀的“恋爱史”，而今却不时成为双方互相逗趣的笑料！幸福的老伴的生活都是相似的：每天在骂骂咧咧争争吵吵中迎来阳光灿烂的新一天。说是骂骂咧咧，其实是老伴间特有的打情骂俏。
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">幸福的婚姻是需要经营的，婚姻就像一场探戈，需要有人进、有人退，互相配合，动作默契。被踩到脚、绊脚种种，都是十分正常的。懂社交舞的都知道，探戈的舞伴是不能临时拉配的，一般都会有一个固定舞伴，因为探戈特别强调默契。所以婚姻如跳探戈，但婚姻又不同于探戈：一场探戈十来分钟就完了，但凡有什么矛盾，忍一下就过去了。而婚姻这场探戈，却是要跳一辈子的！所以，光靠忍让是不行的。忍让了还要有剖白、沟通，否则，那就永远只是“舞伴”而修炼不到“老伴”的境界。</span>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">夫妻有争执才是正常的，“相敬如宾、举案齐眉”不是幸福的夫妻，说明没有思想交锋、没有个人观点。就这样热热闹闹争争执执了几十年，到了“老伴”时期越发无顾忌——两人手拉手逛超市为买什么要争，去散步时谁走得太快谁太慢也要争，开车时走哪条路往哪拐也要争……都是老伴了，有什么话开不了口？就这样吵吵闹闹地一起参加双方的同学会、退休老同事聚餐，去锻炼，去参加各种活动，互相陪伴着……老伴有点像连体婴儿——年轻时不断疾呼不要在婚姻中失去自我，力争有自己的私人空间，当你们互称老伴时，觉得唯有拉着老伴的手，才最有安全感！牵着我，别松手。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">当婚姻磨合到互称老伴时，互相间的感情远比“我爱你”所表述的要深沉，因为两人已互为一体，你中有我，我中有你。恰如《战争与和平》中的比埃尔对妻子娜塔沙所说：你说我爱我的手指吗？或许我不会每天感受到我对它的爱，因为，它已成为组成我身体的一部分，一旦我缺了这根手指，那就远不只是悲伤和痛苦，因为我已是残缺不全了。这就是老伴间的感情。
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #2a1fe0,0 1px 4px #2a1fe0,0 -1px 4px #2a1fe0,-1px 0 4px #2a1fe0;filter:glow(color=#2a1fe0,strength=3)">老伴是婚姻生活中最圆满滋润的境界。而今发现不少年轻夫妇在父母这样一个“夕阳无限好”的宝贵时刻，为了让老妈给自己带孩子，无形中“逼迫”老爸老妈分居。或许年轻人觉得，都这把年纪了，有什么分居不分居的。他们不知道，这对老爸老妈是十分残忍的。年轻夫妇，来日方长，小别胜新婚；但老伴，我说过了，是连体婴儿，双双走过千山万水，好不容易迎来“夕阳无限好”却“只是近黄昏”，就让老爸老妈多点厮守的时光吧！</span>
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