比外表更迷人的，是一个人骨子里的教养
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)"> 不在公共场合炫耀，不刻意吸引关注；会记住初见的人的名字；即使是对亲近的人，也始终和颜悦色……</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">这些日常的善意小举动，让人感觉如沐春风，我想，这就是对教养最好的解释了。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">正如俞敏洪所说：教养就是当你走到一群人中间，你的行为恰当得体，让人感到礼貌和愉悦。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">谈到教养，便想起柯以敏对超女选手大爆粗口事件，闹得可谓是沸沸扬扬，人尽皆知了。 </span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)"> 超女海选比赛时，一名选手刚做完介绍，称自己有点重感冒，而柯以敏马上严厉说道：“不要唱了，滚吧！”台上女生一下子愣住了，气氛十分尴尬。当另一个选手上台因紧张说话语气过快时，她又在台下打断并模仿，甚至没等选手唱完一句，就再次发出“NO”的声音。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">视频曝光后在网络疯转，纷纷指责她不尊重选手，导演高群书也转发视频，并愤怒爆粗口，称：“尼玛连做个评委都这样一点教养都不顾地去炫耀权利？”</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">连尊重别人这点最基本的教养都没有，读再多的书，有再牛逼的成就，又有什么用呢？最终也不过是在别人口中多了“没教养”三个字。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">真正有教养的人，不会用自以为是的优势去过分苛责别人，无视别人，因为他深知，尊重别人就是尊重自己，教养才是一个人最好的名片。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;font-size:24px;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">教养是不让别人难堪</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;font-size:24px;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">前一阵，陈冠希大骂林志玲一事，引起了巨大轰动。当大家都在各种猜测事情真相，并坐等看好戏时，一贯好脾气的林志玲，却是这么回应的：“笑看风云淡，坐看云起时，不争就是慈悲，不辩就是智慧，不闻就是清净，不看就是自在，原谅就是解脱，知足就是放下。这样的自己，才能持续散发正能量，给予我也给予大家。”</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;font-size:24px;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">一切以宽容之心对待，她又一次展示了自己高情商高教养的个人魅力。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;font-size:24px;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">而这，不是说装就能装得出来的。因为自己的大高个儿，她在和别人合照时总是微微下蹲，不让对方因为身高难堪，或者干脆就穿平底鞋；和人握手时习惯屈膝，既表示尊重又幽默感十足。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">这样的教养并不是挂在嘴边说说，而是体现在日常的一举一动中。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">真正有教养的人，懂得设身处地为他人着想，用真诚与善良与他人交往，而不是心中只想着自己，将自己的情绪凌驾于他人之上。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">比外表更迷人的，是一个人骨子里的教养</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">教养是一个人骨子散发出来的最佳魅力，它比外表更迷人。有教养的人，就如一股清风，让自己舒适，也让别人感觉到舒服。 </span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">qqqqq大咖刘德华就是这样一个人，不仅外表迷人，内在的教养更让人钦佩。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">多年前香港乐坛还火时，每年都会邀请内地音乐台主持人参加年终音乐盛典，会后有媒体答谢晚宴。很多明星都不去，刘德华不仅去了，还非常准时。几十桌酒席，他每一桌都敬酒，和每个人都碰杯，每桌分配寒暄的时间基本也都一样。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">有人感叹：“华仔情商真高，什么人都能应付。”</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">“其实，他是教养好。哪个明星不知道要和媒体搞好关系，能做到的又有几个，他是打心底里尊重每个来参会的人。”</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">如果不是骨子里渗透着良好的教养，相信再好的演技也难以演绎出来这种迷人魅力。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #262626,0 1px 4px #262626,0 -1px 4px #262626,-1px 0 4px #262626;filter:glow(color=#262626,strength=3)">颜值、金钱、地位，都不是衡量一个人的最佳标准，真正决定个人魅力的，是骨子里一成不变的教养。它决定了你的眼界，决定了你未来会不会成功，还有，能走多远。</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;display:inline-block;color:white;text-shadow:1px 0 4px #0c0c0c,0 1px 4px #0c0c0c,0 -1px 4px #0c0c0c,-1px 0 4px #0c0c0c;filter:glow(color=#0c0c0c,strength=3)">洛克说：在缺乏教养的人身上，勇敢就会成为粗暴，学识就会成为迂腐，机智就会成为逗趣，质朴就会成为粗鲁，温厚就会成为谄媚。</span></div>
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