我们得学会--1静--2平--3忍--4让--5淡
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<span style="white-space:pre-wrap"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-weight:bold;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312">学会做一个倾听者,而不是情绪发泄者。一个聒噪的人,本就失去了一份宁静美,还扰的别人不得安宁,何苦呢?更何况,言多必失,多做事总是好过多说话。</span></p>
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<span style="white-space:pre-wrap"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-weight:bold;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312">是平凡,是平淡,是平衡。有棱角的坏处,就是让别人咬起你来很容易下口。做一个平淡的人,圆滑却不世故,任世间繁华,独守自己的寂寞,不求万人敬仰,但求问心无愧。</span></p>
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<span style="white-space:pre-wrap"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-weight:bold;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312">面对不公,别气愤,别宣泄。一来气愤伤身体,二来气愤不解决问题。“有肚量去容忍那些不能改变的事,有勇气去改变那些可能改变的事,有智能去区别上述两类事。”这是成功者要具备的三个素质。</span></p>
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<span style="white-space:pre-wrap"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-weight:bold;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312">大是大非,不能退让,但小事情,尽量多收集一些人的意见,“一人智短,两人智长。”“退一步海阔天空”,有时候一小步的退让可以减少很多不必要的纷争。</span></p>
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<span style="white-space:pre-wrap"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;min-height:1em;white-space:pre-wrap;text-align:center;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-weight:bold;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312">一切都看淡些。对名利,对金钱,对感情。没有什么是离开了就不能活了的东西。得失也是辩证的,你在这方面损失了,你的心灵会得到释放,会有机会去尝试别的选择。</span></p>
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