十类妈妈养出的孩子必成大器
<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <font size="5"><b>有心的妈妈</b></font></span><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 《礼记》中说过：“未有学养子而后嫁者也。”自古以来，人们都认为只要有子女，做了父母，就“自然而然”会教育子女。似乎教育子女没有什么学问，只要“能生”，就能教育。时至今日，仍还有一些人持有这种观念。其实，这是一种不好的观念。这种观念不改变，教育中难免带有盲目性和主观随意性，很难获得成功。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 要做一个有心的妈妈，留心观察孩子的一言一行，要在合适的时机用恰当的方式教育孩子。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一次，孟轲看到邻居家正在杀猪，便问母亲：“他们杀猪干什么？”孟母信口说：“杀猪给你吃肉呗！”刚说出口便觉失言，非常后悔：“孩子刚刚懂事我就欺骗他，这明明是在撒谎，真不该信口开河。”为了不给儿子造成言而无信的不良影响，孟母咬牙从拮据的生活费中挤出钱来，从邻家买回猪肉，炖好给孟子吃，兑现了无意中的许诺。</span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 1.6; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <b>少说“不”的妈妈</b></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> </font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 你不把孩子想成是全能小神童，你知道每一个孩子都有优点及缺点，你懂得放大他的优点，让他乐于其中，也懂得并不总说“不”，你鼓励他大胆向前走;你不以高标准来要求宝宝，你知道，每个人的一生中总会犯错，但能汲取教训学习到经验也是一笔大财富。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(142, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(142, 68, 66); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <b>教孩子改过的妈妈</b></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 你孩子的可塑性非常强，虽然他们会犯很多错误，但是作为一个好母亲，应该从小就养成改正错误的习惯。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 我们常说三岁看八十，如果母亲能在孩子小的时候帮助他养成改过的好习惯，显然会影响他一生。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <b>讲信用的妈妈</b></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 你是说话算话的妈妈，当你答应陪伴宝宝时，一定会提早安排好其他的事项。你不随意答应孩子任何事并且实现不了时以各式理由推托，你知道，宝宝在刚懂事期间“诚信教育”至关重要。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 曾子的夫人到集市上去，她的儿子哭着闹着要跟着去。他的母亲对他说：“你回去，等我回来杀猪给你吃。”她刚从集市上回来，曾子就马上要去杀猪。他的妻子说：“我不过是开玩笑罢了，你居然信以为真了。”曾子说：父母去教他，听从父母的教导。现在你欺骗孩子，就是在教他欺骗别人。母亲欺骗了孩子，孩子就不会相信他的母亲。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <b>喜欢微笑的妈妈</b></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 生活中不如意事十之八九，你是个乐观爱笑的妈妈，你懂得如何释怀，你不乱发脾气，心情不好时，你不隐藏，你坦诚的与孩子分享你的小心事，成为他的“大朋友”。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> <b>“大气”的妈妈</b><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 当宝宝与其他小朋友发生矛盾时，你是“大气”的妈妈，你以大事化小，小事化了的原则处理，不得理不饶人，懂得教会小朋友学会宽容，学会用微笑化解矛盾。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 28px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> <b>宽严相济的妈妈</b></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 孟母“断织喻学”的举动，可以算是体现中国母亲智慧的典型例子。孟子小时无心向学，一次还没放学就跑回了家。孟母正在织布，见他回来，问道：“学习怎么样了？”孟子漫不经心地说：“跟过去一样。”孟母闻言，举起剪刀一把剪断了织好的布。“读书犹如织布，累丝成寸。你荒废学业，如同我剪断这布一样，还能接得上吗？”孟子顿有所悟，从此刻苦读书。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 著名作家茅盾八十寿辰时，写了一首《八十自述》诗，深情地回顾了童年时母亲的精心培育：“……大节贵不亏，小德许出入。课儿攻诗史，岁终勤考绩”，述说自己小时贪玩，母亲虽然生气，但也不忍心打骂，而是说服教育，循循善诱。邻人颇有微词，认为她对孩子太“姑息”。母亲一度也困惑，但她经过深思，坚定了自己的教育方法：“只要抓好大节教育，孩子偶尔贪玩点也没什么。”这与古人宽严相济、劝学有方的教子智慧一脉相承。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; line-height: 28px; text-indent: 0em;"><font size="5"> <b>懂得防微杜渐的妈妈</b></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 明清之际著名思想家顾炎武由婶母一手抚养长大。顾炎武从小聪颖，常被夸赞，渐渐滋长了骄傲情绪。婶母觉察后，让他背诵并解释《卖柑者言》。这是一篇寓言杂文，用形象的比喻，揭露那些“金玉其外，败絮其中”的达官贵人的腐朽本质。顾炎武解释得很清楚。“还有什么别的意思吗？”婶母追问。顾炎武无言以对。“文章的讽刺对一般人不也很有教益吗？如果做学问刚有一点进步就骄傲起来，满足于一知半解，那不也就是‘金玉其外，败絮其中’吗！”顾炎武闻言大窘，从此立志进德，勤于修身。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em;"><font size="5"> 母亲教育孩子，一定要懂得防微杜渐的道理，及时发现孩子身上的各种苗头，督促改正或强化。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 28px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> <b>行正品端的妈妈</b></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 母亲对孩子的影响是潜移默化的，作为一个合格的母亲，一定要品行端正。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; line-height: 27px; text-indent: 2em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 周文王的母亲，这是记录在历史上的，怀孕期间“目不视恶色”，眼睛看东西，不善的东西、不好的东西不看；“耳不听淫声”，耳听声音，这个声音不善、言语不善、音乐不善不听；“口不出傲言”，说话的时候柔和、温柔。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 29px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 28px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: start; text-indent: 0em; font-family: 宋体, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> <b>不轻言责备的妈妈</b></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 明代吕坤在其所著《呻吟语》中提出了经典的“七不责”：对众不责，愧悔不责，暮夜不责，正饮食不责，正欢庆不责，正悲忧不责，疾病不责。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="5"> 这告诉所有为人母者，一定不要轻言责备，在这七中情况下不要责备孩子：</font></span><span style="font-size: x-large; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体; line-height: 1.5;">众人面前不责备，惭愧后悔不责备，夜晚不责备，吃饭不责备，正在欢庆时不责备，正在忧伤时不责备，正在患病时不责备。</span></p>
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