夫妻相处要用心 但不是用心计
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 用心，不怕被对方识破，而用心计，不仅害怕对方识破，而且一旦被对方识破，你今后就是真心待她，她也会认为你是在对她用心计。<span lang="EN-US"><?xml:namespace prefix = o /><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4"></font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 用心，可以让对方信任你一辈子；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font color="black" size="4"> 用心计，只能让对方相信你一阵子。</font></span></p><div><font color="black" size="4"></font> </div><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 用心，是带着情与爱来思考问题，是以尽可能有的善意与诚意来处理事情；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 用心计，则是用瞒与骗的方式来耍花招，是用说起来做起来很好听很好看的方式，来包藏、隐藏自己并不美丽并不美好的思想与行为。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font color="black" size="4"> 心与心总是相通的，心计与心计总是相克的。</font></span></p><div><font color="black" size="4"></font> </div><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 古人说，人心都是肉长的，彼此用心，才能做到血肉相连，生死与共。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 古人从来没有说过人心是用心计长成的，用心计算计对方，是最可怕最可恶的人心不古。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 彼此用心，就是在心与心之间铺路搭桥；<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font color="black" size="4"> 彼此用心计，就是在心与心之间埋陷阱。</font></span></p><div><font color="black" size="4"></font> </div><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 夫妻之间的离心离德，往往就是从一方用心计开始的。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 善用心计的人，永远享受不到心心相印的幸福，也永远达不到以心换心的境界。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font color="black" size="4"> 在任何情况下都用心，是对爱的自信，也是对爱的坚守。在这样的人面前，心计用得越多，越显出自己的渺小与丑陋，越不得人心。</font></span></p><div><font color="black" size="4"></font> </div><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> 许多喜欢玩心计的人，以为玩心计能显示自己的聪明与高明，其实，那是最大的愚蠢与糊涂。在任何情况下都用心，那才是最高最大的智慧。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;" lang="EN-US"><o:p><font color="black" size="4"> </font></o:p></span></p><font color="black" size="4">
</font><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 24.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: navy; font-family: 仿宋_GB2312; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><font size="4"><font color="black"> “对这些话品味再三后，我想，何止夫妻之间，朋友之间、同事之间、合作者之间都应该本着“用心，不要用心计”的原则来相处，这才是交往的大智慧。”<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
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