网 恋 与 夫 妻，到 底 谁 有 真 爱 ？
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<span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >这是网上一篇文章里提到的问题，也是众多网友容易动摇自己的问题。在是与非的答案里，无非有这样几个结果：其一，网恋没有真爱，夫妻有真爱；其二，网恋没有真爱，夫妻也没有真爱；其三，网恋有真爱，夫妻也有真爱；其四，网恋有真爱，夫妻没有真爱。这样的问题提出来，有点小儿科的味道。但，人要迷惑起来，连小儿科都不如。此疑问出笼犹如：左手和右手哪个更有用处？上半身和下半身哪个部位的爱更动真？五个手指哪一个手指的用处更大些？呵呵，小儿科的部位比较也很开心吧。 </span><br/>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >网恋，上网的人都很眼晕的字眼。夫妻，人人都很敏感的热门话题。两者纠缠在一起，如同上下牙齿的嚼合，被一百度的热水灌溉而沸腾了起来。既是无法躲避的事实，与其躲避，倒不如直接面对。网络设置了平台，对流的是心灵，裸露的是灵魂。虚拟也罢，模拟也罢，让人感到的是减压放松，人们在此卸下面具的同时，也回归了做人的本能。现实铺设的舞台，人们披甲戴盔，夹着尾巴做人。真实也罢，实际也罢，让人感到的是不堪的疲惫，人们在面对压力和竞争的同时，也生出许多危机和无奈。 </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >网上，展示的是自我的本来面貌，即便有了激情交流，也是距离产生的美感造就；即便膨胀了爱情，也是注入了朦胧的遐想成全。毕竟，网恋是一种心灵释放，是一种精神索取。网下，展露的是生活的本来面貌，夫妻零距离的接触，奔放的是真枪实弹；即便情感有了迷离，也不至于将家庭放弃。毕竟，婚姻是一种责任，责任锁住了我们的身体。网恋的美好，是因为它是一种想象，一种境界，一种脱离实际的 海市蜃楼。</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >夫妻的美好，是因为它是一种真实，一种实惠，一种实实在在的生活内容。网络中，相知相恋的人每每可见；生活中，同床异梦的夫妻也不少。错的时间里遇上对的人，或对的时间里遇上了错的人，都是一种错合。错合的不是环境，是时间，是机遇。人生漫长，发现错合是种醒悟。要不要纠正，全在自身。网恋也罢，夫妻也罢，只有女人才会较真，在真假是非上区分。女人下注的感情，往往是全身心地投入，女人对网恋的疑虑是和上当受骗连在了一起。 </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >因为女人不相信男人，也就等于不相信自己。即便上当受骗，不是男人骗女人，是女人自己骗自己。男人轻易不会骗女人，因为男人也是人，是人就会动真情，男人一样有真爱。男人的真爱动在谁身上，时间动的长短和感情投入的深浅，不是男人一个人说了算，这和女人有很大的关联。女人能不能给男人激情，值不值得男人投注真感情，男人要算帐，男人要核算风险和投资的成本，而这又取决于女人给男人的能量，绝不是取决于做女人的资本。 </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;font-style:italic;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)" >真爱无悔！网恋是种理想，网上的爱，未必都假；夫妻是种现实。夫妻的爱，也未必都真。理想和现实都是一种生活，都是生活中的一种需要。真正的爱情，不在时间的对错，也不在环境的场所，而在所遭遇的对象。遇对人，错的时间错的场合里，一样有真爱；遇错人，对的时间对的场合里，也一样无真爱。至于网恋和夫妻之情，谁更有真爱的问题，全凭当事人的自我感觉。有一点，个人的感觉，只是一种个体模式，而不可能成为共同模式让人去模仿。</span></div>
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