四大悟--悟示弱，悟放弃，悟心境，悟孤独
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<div style="text-align:center"><p align="center" ?=""><embed height="500" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" allownetworking="internal" width="750" allowscriptaccess="never" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://www.fscyd.com/upFiles/tmsc/mudana/06.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" ?=""><br></p>
<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">一、悟示弱</span></div>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #002060,0 1px 4px #002060,0 -1px 4px #002060,-1px 0 4px #002060;filter:glow(color=#002060,strength=3)">一个人太强势，不管出发点是不是好的，定会受到伤害，这种伤害几乎无法挽回，所以很多人遍体鳞伤，因为不懂得示弱。示弱其实很简单，在关键时听从别人意见，关注感受，情商管理得体，让人合作有安全感。示弱不是妥协，是更快达到目标，是伟大的。学会示弱，做熟透稻谷!<br>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">二、悟放弃</span></div>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #002060,0 1px 4px #002060,0 -1px 4px #002060,-1px 0 4px #002060;filter:glow(color=#002060,strength=3)">人生就是一个不断选择、不断放弃的过程。有所放弃，才能让有限的生命释放出最大的能量。没有果敢的放弃，就不会有顽强的坚持。放弃是一种灵性的觉醒，一种慧根的显现，一如放鸟返林、放鱼入水。当一切尘埃落定，往日的喧嚣归于平静，我们才会真正懂得：放弃也是一种选择，失去也是一种收获。<br>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">三、悟心境</span></div>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #002060,0 1px 4px #002060,0 -1px 4px #002060,-1px 0 4px #002060;filter:glow(color=#002060,strength=3)">人活的就是心境。人生的许多变数，取决于天、地、人三才的运转变化，天时地利人和三者俱佳，则凡事自顺。人的一生，小事无数，你能计较多少?人生的大事也只能尽人事以听天命，常人岂能奈何?为小事而常介怀，不值;为大事而常悲戚，不该。所以，对于小事要开心;对于大事要宽心。<br>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="text-align:center;text-indent:2em;font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #ff0000,0 1px 4px #ff0000,0 -1px 4px #ff0000,-1px 0 4px #ff0000;filter:glow(color=#ff0000,strength=3)">四、悟孤独</span></div>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #002060,0 1px 4px #002060,0 -1px 4px #002060,-1px 0 4px #002060;filter:glow(color=#002060,strength=3)">学会和自己独处，心灵才能得到净化。独处，也是灵魂生长的必要空间，只有静下心来，才能回归自我。心灵有家，生命才有路。只有学会和自己独处，心灵才会洁净，心智才会成熟，心胸才会宽广。独处，是一种静美，也是一种修炼。能够在独处时安然自得，才会在喧嚣时淡然自若。<br>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #1d23e2,0 1px 4px #1d23e2,0 -1px 4px #1d23e2,-1px 0 4px #1d23e2;filter:glow(color=#1d23e2,strength=3)">独处时不觉孤单，<br>
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<p style="text-indent:2em"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:微软雅黑;font-weight:bold;display:inline-block; color:white; text-shadow:1px 0 4px #1d23e2,0 1px 4px #1d23e2,0 -1px 4px #1d23e2,-1px 0 4px #1d23e2;filter:glow(color=#1d23e2,strength=3)">不得时不会难过，<br>
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