别和最好的朋友太近
<h1 style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; LINE-HEIGHT: 22px; WIDOWS: 2; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: normal; ORPHANS: 2; COLOR: rgb(62,62,62); FONT-SIZE: 16px; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><strong style="color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: 'Microsoft Yahei', Simsun; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> 交往的质量在于距离。</span></strong></p></h1>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 在友谊的框架内，你第一个想起的人，一定是最好的朋友。当然，他若第一个想起的也是你，那么，你俩一定是两心相悦的至交。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><strong style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 你会发现，你与那个一辈子都要好的朋友之间，是有距离的。</strong>这个距离，不远，也不近，不疏，也不密，是一颗心对另一颗心的不绝欣赏，是一段情对另一段情的永恒仰望。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><strong style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 交往过度其实是很致命的。</strong>这有点像吃饭，无论多么顺口的珍肴，是不能总吃的。胃不说什么，大大咧咧，但一颗敏感的心，早已变得挑剔，厌烦。这时候，极平常的一句话，极微小的一件事，都会引起交往的一次海啸。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 是的，山珍海味也有吃腻的时候。在交往的理想结果上，你不要期待永远的如胶似漆，你能不断地接近与契合，就够了。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 平素间，推杯换盏，称兄道弟，鞍前马后，阿谀逢迎的人，不是朋友，是利益的结合体。超出常情的亲密无间，不是在交往，是在勾结，在利用，在狼狈为奸。这样的结合体，聚得快，散得也快，刚才还好得一塌糊涂，转眼间，就可以翻脸到分崩离析。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
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<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><span style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; COLOR: rgb(149,55,52); PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 费了心思的交往，叫周旋，累；</span></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><span style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; COLOR: rgb(149,55,52); PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 耍了心机的交往，叫算计，阴。</span></p>
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<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 真正的交往，是至简至真的，一扇春天的门开了，一扇含笑的门阖上，然后，天地淡然。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 如果一个人一辈子都没有与别人真正交往过，不是孤高自傲太过超脱，就是品性卑琐不被人所容；当然了，若许多人都是你结交的朋友，恐怕，更多的是狐朋狗友。佛无至爱，只有众亲，我们不是佛，我们的心里，一辈子，真正接纳的，只会是有限的几个人。更多的，都成了我们生命中的匆匆过客。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
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<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><span style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; COLOR: rgb(149,55,52); PADDING-TOP: 0px">交往的质量，在一定意义上成就着生命的质量。</span></p>
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<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> “竹林七贤”之一的山涛，投靠司马氏之后，平步青云。有一次，他想推荐同为“竹林七贤”的好朋友嵇康做官，嵇康觉得自己高洁的情操与志向受到了凌辱，于是，愤怒地给山涛写了一封信，这就是历史上有名的《与山巨源绝交书》。就这样，嵇康与好友山涛渐行渐远，却因此，在魏晋名士中，嵇康成就了自己独一无二的名声。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><strong style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 我觉得，最好的交往，不是双方有意识的吸附与粘合，而是彼此间无意识的渗透与融入。</strong>吸附与粘合，常常怀有目的性和功利欲，或含蓄，或浓烈，总之，看起来，有些心怀鬼胎；而渗透与融入，则不然。云淡风轻的，风倏忽间来，云恬淡着去，无欲无求，是心灵最真挚的握手，是情感最纯净的需求。</p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><br style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; PADDING-TOP: 0px"></p>
<p style="BOX-SIZING: border-box !important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MIN-HEIGHT: 1em; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MAX-WIDTH: 100%; WORD-WRAP: break-word !important; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px"> 历史上，俞伯牙与钟子期，高山流水，贵为知音。钟子期死后，俞伯牙黯然地把琴摔了。也许，在他看来，世界再美的乐声，如果无知音来赏，不如，任天籁的香魂归去，让它成为绝唱。</p>
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