读《曾国藩家书》偶得随谈
<font face="Arial">读《曾国藩家书》偶得随谈<br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;">引：</font></font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">【【致四弟·不宜非议讥笑他人</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">【原文】</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">澄侯四弟左右：弟言家中子弟，无不谦者，此却未然。凡畏人不敢妄议论者，谨慎</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">者也。凡好讥评人短者，骄傲者也。谚云：“富家子弟多骄，贵家子弟多傲。”非必锦</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">衣玉食，动手打人，而后谓之骄傲也。但使志得意满，毫无畏忌，开口议人短长，即是</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">极骄傲耳。</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">余正月初四日信中，言戒骄字，以不轻非笑人①为第一义。望弟弟常猛省，并戒子</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">弟也。（咸丰十一年二月初四日）</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">【注释】</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">①不轻非笑人：指不轻易非议讥笑别人。</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">【译文】</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">澄侯四弟左右：</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">弟弟说家里子弟，没有不谦和的，这并非如此。凡属因为惧怕别人而不敢妄加议论</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">别人的，属于谨慎谦和的人。凡属喜欢讽刺批评别人短处的人，属于骄傲的人。谚语说：</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">“富家子弟多骄，贵家子弟多傲。”不是一定要锦衣玉食，动手打人，才叫骄傲。就是</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">自己感到得志，感到满意，没有畏忌，开口议人短长，便叫极骄极傲了。</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">我正月初四日信里，说了戒骄字，要以不轻易非议笑讥笑别人为第一要义。希望弟</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" color="#000"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="Arial, 宋体 ">弟常常猛省，并且告诫子弟。（咸丰十一年二月初四日）】】</font></font><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><br style="font: 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><strong style="font: bold 14px/normal Verdana, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" face="黑体 "><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" size="4"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">纨绔子弟，已经不光是豪富之家的特产了。一个小户人家，现在的生活也都是经济富庶，冬夏可以空调。连古代的皇帝还没有的待遇都有了。每天都可以过得和过年类似。所以，在满足自家子弟的欲望方面，都是能能的。以至于导致纨绔子弟多多的了。看看现在的孩子，我有个老大爷朋友，他跟我说：现在生活这么好了，老人们对待孩子都和掌上明珠一样的，可是小孩儿还怨父母长辈对他们不好呢！</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">且别说“惯子如杀子”的老话儿，说说为什么惯子如杀子。古人有一句话叫做“天祸小人使其得志”，意思就是，上天要给一个小人灾祸，会让他不断地达到目的。我记得几年前有个“我的爸爸是李刚”的小孩儿，就是他这句话一直能在各种场合都得逞、达到别人都怕他的目的，而说顺了嘴。最后导致祸端上门。</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">上天是要人知足常乐和能忍即安，上天不会常常满足人的欲望的。这是这个世界的规律。而自家的孩子常常地被满足，心理已经习惯了满足、得意、得志，往往在别人那里和到了**大众环境下会感觉不舒适、受压抑。而自己会结团伙来共同达成他们自己的满意。所以会慢慢走歪路。回去走穷奢极欲的道路。</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">而欲望，我们有一定人生经验的中年人都知道过多追求欲望的苦楚---病，以及祸事。尤其是病，就会跟那个欲望太大的人结很深的缘。</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">耳中常闻逆耳之言,心中常有拂心之事,才是进德修行的砥石。若言言悦耳,事事快心,便把此生埋在鸩毒中矣。---菜根谭</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">真正长寿而且康健的人生，一定是顺利的人生。这个顺利，不是事事满意、万事如意，而是人心对不能达到的欲求有了解放的妥协，不去人心不足蛇吞象去了，而是过一个退一步海阔天空、恬淡平庸、清福细水长流的生活了。</font><br style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;"><font style="line-height: normal; word-wrap: break-word;" color="#000">所谓“人心苦不知足”，人的苦都来源于这个“不知足”啊！一不知足，苦就来。而不明白事理的人，强自追求，烦恼皆由强出头，人生于是烦恼不断，如同九连环一般。。。</font></font></font></strong> 知足常乐:lol 一抹海蓝 发表于 2014-2-24 12:52知足常乐
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